Dispensationalism: New Covenant Not For Christians  

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Leading dispensationalists teach that the New Covenant is an agreement established only between God and the nation of Israel (ethnic & political Israel) and that the New Covenant has not yet been actualized. For example: J. Dwight Pentecost writes, “…the new covenant of Jeremiah 31:31-34 must and can be fulfilled only by the nation of Israel and not by the Church…the covenant stands as yet unfulfilled and awaits a future, literal fulfillment. (emphasis mine)” This position advances that individual Christians (Jewish or Gentile believers in Christ) and the Church as a whole are not members of the New Covenant – does this seem like a problem to you? In this article I will provide quotes from leading dispensationalist scholars on this subject; I will remind everyone that the New Testament does in fact unquestionably teach that Christians are members of the New Covenant; and will conclude with a plea for Christian unity over these issues. 

John Walvoord (long time president of the Dallas Theological Seminary) wrote, “…the new covenant is with Israel and the fulfillment in the millennial kingdom after the second coming of Christ.”8 Charles Ryrie (editor of the Ryrie Study Bible) said, “The following provisions for Israel, the people of the new covenant, to be fulfilled in the millennium, the period of the new covenant…the covenant was made with the Jewish people. Its period of fulfillment is yet future beginning when the Deliverer shall come.” Notice Ryrie clearly says here that the “people of the new covenant” is Israel (meaning ethnically Jewish people) and that the “period of the new covenant” is yet future (the Millennial Reign of Christ). J.Dwight Pentecost is in agreement when he says, “…this covenant (the New Covenant) was made with Israel, the physical seed of Abraham according to the flesh, and with them alone.” 

So, their position is clear: The New Covenant is an agreement between God and the ethnic Jewish people alone, and it is yet a future agreement from now. The reason dispensationalists make these restrictions on the New Covenant is because the promise of the New Covenant from Jeremiah states that the recipients are “Israel” and “Judah.” “Behold, the days come, saith the LORD, that I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel, and with the house of Judah” (Jeremiah 31:31). You would think this would be an open-and-shut case, except for one major problem – – – The New Testament. For it is the N.T. that interprets and applies these verses from Jeremiah as having reference to and being fulfilled in the New Testament (or New Covenant) Christian Church. 

Jesus made reference to this New Covenant during the Last Supper: “And as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and blessed it, and brake it, and gave it to the disciples, and said, Take, eat; this is my body. And he took the cup, and gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, Drink ye all of it; for this is my blood of the new testament (new covenant), which is shed for many for the remission of sins. (Mat. 26:26-28) Covenants in Scripture are established and ratified with the shedding and sprinkling of blood. The Old Covenant that God made with Israel was established after the Exodus with the giving of the Law, which was also ratified with blood and the sprinkling of all the Tabernacle with the blood of appropriate sacrifices. When Jesus was celebrating the Passover with His disciples, these very events of the Exodus and the establishment of The Old Covenant is what was in process of being remembered (Passover). There, in that very moment, is when Jesus revealed that he was instituting the New Covenant. This New Covenant is not made official by the blood of animals, but with His own blood that he was about to give on the Cross. If the blood of Jesus has been shed and is applied, then the New Covenant is currently in force and has been since the first century. 

Additionally, when the apostle Paul gave instructions to the Corinthian Church about the Lord’s Supper, he repeated these instruction from the Lord, “After the same manner also he took the cup, when he had supped, saying, This cup is the new testament (or New Covenant) in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me.” This is important because now we are talking about a church made up of primarily gentile believers in a land outside of Israel. The point – The New Covenant was already well underway in the first century, and by Gentile and Jewish believers alike. 

The New Covenant prophesied by Jeremiah is also very clearly said to be in force by the writer of the book of Hebrews. “But ye are (not will be) come unto mount Sion, and unto the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to an innumerable company of angels, to the general assembly and church of the firstborn, which are written in heaven, and to God the Judge of all, and to the spirits of just men made perfect, and to Jesus the mediator of the new covenant, and to the blood of sprinkling, that speaketh better things than that of Abel.” (Hebrews 12:22-24) This passage contrasts the establishment of the Old Covenant with Israel at Sinai with the establishment of the New Covenant with the Church. Anyone with a basic familiarity with the book of Hebrews knows that the whole point is showing that the old covenant was passing away and that the new covenant had come. The old were the pictures, but now the person in the pictures had come, so we put away the pictures and embrace the Person. 

Hebrews 8, 9 & 10 make it abundantly clear that the New Covenant has indeed come, that it is already in force, and that this is the same faith of all of the other apostolic churches in the New Testament. In other words, the covenant is not only with ethnic Jews, but also with gentile believers in Messiah, starting in the first century. 

The only possible way you can attempt to get around these Scriptures is to somehow manufacture at least two different “new covenants,” which would be as difficult biblically as trying to successfully pull out a whole pack of chewed gum out of a girl’s long hair – the best course of action is just to cut it out!  

This distressing difficulty is felt by Renald Showers in his book “There Really is a Difference.” Dr. Showers is unsure about the relationship between the Church and the New Covenant. He ponders, “In spite of the Old Testaments’ silence concerning the relationship of the Church to the new covenant, the New Testament seems to indicate that the Church is related somehow to it.” “God had only promised one new covenant, it seems evident Jesus was referring to the new covenant.” “It seems obvious that Jesus was stating that the communion cup represents the New Covenant which God promised to Israel in the Old Testament. The very fact that the Church partakes of the communion cup which represents the New Covenant promised by God to Israel seems to indicate that the Church partakes of that New Covenant.” I can see Dr. Showers scratching his head saying, “The New Covenant is only with ethnic Jews, period. However, the New Testament clearly shows the New Covenant being established with the Church. Hmm… It seems like it, but it can’t be…” It seems like Dr. Showers is more committed to cleaving to the presuppositions of dispensationalism than letting the Bible plainly speak for itself. 

There should be absolutely no uncertainty about the relationship between the Church and the New Covenant. The irrefutable and obvious fact that the New Covenant is the agreement between God and the New Testament Church is as clear as the water that issues forth from the throne of God. The Foundation of the entire Christian Church is the “New Testament (Covenant)” Scriptures! Are the writings of the Gospel writers and the apostolic epistles only for Jewish people in the future? It sounds silly to even have to point this out. The apostle Paul said that he was “an able minister of the new testament (covenant); not of the letter, but of the spirit…” (2 Corinthians 3:6) Do gentile believers in Jesus have access to Paul? Does the Church have anything to do with the ministry of Paul? Was not Paul the apostle to the gentiles?! Are ethnic Jews included in the New Covenant? Yes, absolutely, but only those Jews who turn in repentance to God and faith in Jesus Christ. 

So let’s state it clearly – The New Covenant is the eternal agreement that God has made with His people who have faith in Jesus the Messiah. His blood was shed on Calvary for all (Jew and Gentile). When we receive Christ we are sprinkled by his blood and are made holy. We are set apart from the world and God becomes our God and we are His people. This is the New Covenant. It is universal for those in Christ and it is a present reality. 

So why do dispensationalists try to avoid this fact? The reason why is because they are committed to using the Old Testament as the ruler for interpreting the New, instead of using the New Testament as the guide for interpreting the Old. If Moses and the Apostles speak on a given topic, we should give preference to the Apostles. This is not to say that there are any contradictions between the two, but rather because the Apostles are looking at the thing with better glasses on. The Old Testament contained mysteries, which the Lord unlocked for His Apostles. One of those mysteries was the true identification of the People of God – that it was not only Jewish and locally Israelitish, but that it was also Gentile and Global, rather God’s People are a spiritual people in Messiah. There is only one True Israel. In the Old Testament it was mainly local and Jewish, but not completely, because we have included in the covenant people like Rahab and Ruth, etc. In the New Testament, Israel (The People of God, the people of the covenant) is comprised of Jewish and Gentile believers in Jesus, from all around the world. Did God fail in his promises to the Jewish people? Absolutely NOT! Rather, the olive tree was more glorious than they thought, and it included Gentiles as brothers with the wall of separation between us broken down. Hallelujah!    

Calm Down on the Dispensational Dogmatics 

As we conclude, I would like to state that the reason for writing this article is that there are some believers out there who are so strongly dispensational, that they wholesale separate (or even condemn) believers who do not wholeheartedly embrace their doctrine. The main argument is usually along the lines of, “If you are not dispensational then you don’t believe the Bible anymore…” Really? Come on? Dispensationalism teaches that the New Testament Church isn’t part of the New Testament! That is a pretty glaring problem. The Scofield Reference Bible is not inspired. The apostles did not include dispensationalist maps and timelines to their epistles. In simple language – Dispensationalism has problems, there are holes in the system, so it is not wise to be so dogmatic about it. And even if it was completely biblical, not holding to it still does not put someone outside the realms of Christian Orthodoxy. What is waaaay more clear from Scripture is that we should be humble theologians and love our brothers and sisters in Christ. Receive them as Christ received you. Our understanding of Israel and the Church, or the New Covenant and the Church are important – they do make a difference – but they are by no means tenets of orthodoxy. They should in no way separate brethren or churches. A funny thing happened to me – someone decided to separate with me because I questioned dispensationalism, but they didn’t even know what dispensationalism was. That should tell you something. 

I was saved into a strongly dispensational, premillennial church, was mentored closely by the most Jewish loving person I have ever met, and graduated from a Bible college very committed to this position. I love all of those godly people, but from the beginning I always hesitated to wholeheartedly embrace dispensationalism, because of deep personal Bible Study. I am in no way saying that dispensationalists are not intelligent or are not Bible scholars, but rather to say that you can be a committed Bible student and come to a different position, and also that it is possible to come to hold to a system of doctrine with more loyalty than to Scripture alone – especially when your friendships or career are on the line. There are plenty of other faithful pastors and bible scholars who disagree with Dispensational Premillennialism. It is absolutely not THE mark of true orthodoxy. So, don’t be the person who makes other Christians walk the plank because they don’t swear by dispensationalism. And lastly, rejoice in the fact that if you are in Christ you are indeed in the New Covenant and a recipient of every good thing that is in Him. 2 Corinthians 1:20 “For ALL the promises of God in him are yea, and in him Amen, unto the glory of God by us.”

Should Christians Ever Divide Over Doctrine? 

I have been challenged several times to answer the question, “Should Christians ever divide over doctrine?” So, here is a fuller response than ones I have offered previously. Some things I would like to cover in this article: 

  • What the question is Not.
  • Scriptures often cited to support in-house separation and how they are misunderstood & misapplied. 
  • What does Scripture require and emphasize in regards to our relationships with Christians with whom we disagree?
  • So should Christians ever divide over doctrine?
  • The U.S. Armed Forces

Summary 

This article became longer than I expected, so a summary at the outset may be helpful…

The question is not about whether Christians should separate from the world, from sin, from false brethren, or from brethren walking in unrepentant sin. The question is specifically whether we are ever required by Scripture to separate from faithful, born-again, Bible-believing, balanced Christians? Some say that there are Scriptures that require this, but from what I can tell, every Scripture that is used to support that view is requiring separation from unbelievers, sin, or truly unorthodox doctrine (teaching that would place someone outside the realm of the Christian Faith). The emphasis of Scripture in regards to responding to in-house disagreements with other believers is to passionately seek unity through understanding, patience and whatever kind of cooperation we are able to secure while still maintaining a pure conscience. Christians are not encouraged to separate from other genuine believers, but there are instances that it would seem permissible for the overall health and furtherance of the Gospel. If we decide that parting ways is the best for everyone and for the cause of Christ, then it should be done with a spirit of love, grace and unity. What is not encouraged – and is not pleasing to God – is erroneously labeling other faithful Christians as heretics, or having a hard-line, hyper-separatist, “my way or the highway” approach to Christian ministry in the church. 

The question is NOT…

  1. Whether Christians should be separate from the world. The Scriptures are abundantly clear that Christians are a people called out from the world by God to be a different, special, holy people unto Himself (1 Peter 1:16). God has brought us out of Egypt and now it is our duty to keep Egypt out of ourselves. We are not to be yoked together with unbelievers, because light cannot have union with darkness, and as the temple of God we should not be idolaters. Therefore we should come out from among the world and be separate (2 Corinthians 6). We shouldn’t be committing, condoning or excusing any of the sins explicitly listed in the New Testament. We should preach boldly against worldliness and back it up by keeping our lives free from it.  
  2. Neither is the question whether Christians should ever separate from others who merely profess Christ. It is clear that there are some who name the name of Christ, but who are not genuinely Chrisitans (Matthew 7:21-23), are actually following a different Jesus (2 Corinthians 11:4) and are embracing a different Gospel (Galatians 1): organizations such as the Jehovah’s Witnesses, Latter Day Saints (Mormons), 7th Day Adventism, or Roman Catholicism. They talk about the Bible and Jesus, but they have a different Jesus, a different spirit and a different Gospel. Anyone who wholeheartedly embraces the doctrine of those religions will perish. So as children of the grace of God we should not participate, fellowship and partner with false brethren or false “Christian” organizations in any way that would imply that we agree with their doctrine. Any doctrines which are explicitly stated in Scripture that would damn someone if they believe it must be rejected by believers (such as: denying the deity of Christ; or insisting that we must keep the Old Covenant laws for salvation), and we are to make a clear distinction between ourselves and those who hold to them. 
  3. Finally, neither is the question whether we should ever separate from other believers who confess sound theology. The Scriptures are clear that if a fellow brother in Christ begins to walk in open, unrepentant sin and therefore is heaping shame on the reputation of Christ – the church has an obligation to remove them from the fellowship. 1 Corinthians 5 makes it clear that a little leaven (sin) leavens the whole lump, and therefore we should remove that person from the fellowship. Accordingly, Jesus instituted the practice of church discipline (Matthew 18), which should be followed. If a brother hardens his heart in some way, and refuses to walk in humble unity and purity with the church, then the church has the unfortunate responsibility to excommunicate that person from the fellowship.  
  4. The question we are focused on answering in this article is – – – Does the Bible ever require genuinely born-again, faithful, humble, balanced evangelical Christians to separate from one another? This clarity has to be made, because it is often asserted against Christians who strive for unity that they don’t believe in separation at all. There are those who seek for an all-inclusive ecumenicism without regards to any doctrinal or lifestyle concern, but this isn’t representative of everyone seeking unity in the Church, and is certainly not the view of the present writer. We want to seek to draw the line where God draws the line – no further and no closer. Truth is absolutely essential, but so is love and unity. Holding both truth & love in tension is not easy, but I don’t think we have the heart and mind of God unless we hold both in equal tension. 

Scriptures often cited to support in-house separation & how they are misunderstood & misapplied. 

By “in-house” separation I mean separating from a genuinely born again, faithful, humble, balanced evangelical Christian (he or she is neither believing or practicing anything that would exclude them from the Christian Faith). 

 Romans 16:17-18, “Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offenses contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.”

These verses have been used to say that God requires us to separate from other Chrstians who hold to different doctrinal positions than our own. But is this what Paul has in mind here? Let’s take a closer look. 

Paul is instructing us to “avoid” (steer clear) anyone who “causes divisions” (διχοστασία – factitious, sedition, dissension) or “offenses” (σκάνδαλον – scandalous, enticement, snare, temptation to sin). The people Paul have in mind here are malicious and divisive – seditious, factitious, scandalous, enticers, etc. – not merely fellow-brethren who have differing doctrinal opinions on debatable, in-house subjects. The goal of these people is to stimulate disagreements that are intended to lead to discord. The word for “division” here is listed in Galatians 5 in the works of the flesh passage, and is translated as “seditions.” Someone committing sedition has a selfish plan to overthrow the authority of another. A fellow brother who simply has a different opinion and disagrees agreeably is not committing “sedition” or “causing division.” 

The other word, “offenses,” is clearly talking about someone who is trying to entice other Christians to sin. It is used in reference to the working of Satan as well as to “the doctrine of Balaam who taught Balak to cast a stumblingblock before the children of Israel (Revelation 2:14).” Balaam encouraged Balak to convince Israel to commit fornication – which was a very evil plan. So, yes if there are other “Christians” who are trying to entice your church members to sin, then they should be marked, rebuked and avoided. Paul did not have in view fellow, faithful Christians who had in-house, debatable doctrinal or lifestyle disagreements. He had in view people who are committed to the destruction of the health of the church: people who were trying to corrupt the church and trying to get the saints to sin and fall from grace.  

What does Paul mean when he says, “contrary to the doctrine which you have learned?” Does he mean, “Avoid anyone who teaches any doctrine on any point that is different from the whole doctrinal system that you hold to?” If Paul meant that, then we would be required to separate from every single Christian in the world – even from those who reared us up in the Faith! It would mean that any time we would disagree with our teachers, or former companions in the faith, we would be required to separate from them. For example: If someone was raised in a Bible-believing church that taught Postmillennialism, but through study came to the conclusion that it wasn’t the best interpretation of the Bible – is this passage requiring this newly formed Premillennialist to “avoid” his former brothers in Christ because the doctrine they hold to by default “causes division” and “offenses?” No. Not at all. Rather, “the doctrine which you have learned” refers, not to particular Christian denominational convictions, but rather to Pauline/Apostolic theology, New Testament theology, or simply the doctrine of the Gospel as a whole. In 1 Timothy 1:10-11, Paul catalogs a list of sins and ends the list by saying, “…and if there be any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine; according to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, which was committed to my trust.” Sound doctrine is any belief or practice that can live in harmony with the Gospel. If someone is a Bible-Believer (a born-again Christian), who confesses the same Gospel as Paul, and is striving to live according to the nature of it, then they have not veered from “the doctrine which they have learned” to which Paul is referring to – even if they confess and practice someone differently than other evangelical Christians. 

Another passage often cited to support separation from other faithful brothers in Christ is Titus 3:10-11, “A man that is an heretic (αἱρετικός – factitious, divisive, division-maker) after the first and second admonition reject; Knowing that he that is such is subverted, and sinneth, being condemned of himself.” 

Some Christians have a tendency to label any doctrine that is different than their own as heresy. For example: some would say that if another faithful brother or sister in Christ has a different understanding of end times particulars, then they are espousing heresy (which would also follow that they are a heretics) – even though they still confess the 2nd coming of Christ; another example would be that if someone has a different understanding about how certain details of salvation works, then they are also embracing heresy (which again would make them an heretic) – even though they believe in salvation by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone. Many other examples could be used, but the point is that some people categorize pretty much any opinion that differs from their own understanding of the Bible as heresy. But is this Biblical? 

As far as I can tell, the word for “heretic” used here in Titus doesn’t necessitate anything to do with doctrine at all. It rather speaks of someone with a negative, divisive spirit; whose manner and actions are designed to be factitious. For example: someone who sows seeds of gossip around the church then lies about it, or one who causes unrest in church decisions and tries to force their agenda on the church. Someone can be divisive or heretical and still hold to even their own denominational doctrinal standards. [For a fuller study on what the Bible has to say about “heresy,” take a look at this article: https://bro-lee.com/2022/11/22/heresy-hypocrisy-labeling-others-heretics/%5D 

You can have a difference of opinion without being divisive. For example: in the context of married life, there are lots of differences/preferences that surface continually (how to raise children, what to eat, where to go, how to spend money, etc.). A couple can either appropriately disagree agreeably, or be divisive in their interactions through pride or self assertion, demanding their own way, etc. It is possible to have perfect harmony, fellowship and unity within their disagreements, and it is also possible to have hatred, strife and division, even over everyday things. 

I think the way in which we commonly use the word heresy today adds somewhat to the confusion. The Oxford Dictionary entry for heresy is: a belief or opinion contrary to orthodox religious (especially Christian) doctrine. So the modern, English meaning has doctrine being emphasized. But again, even if we take the modern definition, heresy is still beliefs or opinions that are contrary to “orthodox” Christian doctrine. We have to then ask, what is Christian Orthodoxy? We should all be willing to readily admit that Christian Orthodoxy is not equal to our particular denominational opinions on every point. So what is it? How do we define it? I think the safest and wisest approach is to say that Christian Orthodoxy is the core beliefs that can and have been held by all born-again, Bible believing Christians (now and throughout the last 2,000 years of church history). If we accept this definition, then any doctrine that can be held by a Christian that is not in opposition to those core beliefs is not heresy, but rather simply in-house disagreements. It may not be the best teaching, leading to the highest form of Christian excellence, but it still is not heresy – not even by the modern usage of the term.

The fundamental problem with people who are too quick to drop the H-Bomb is that they have wrongly uprooted the boundaries of Christian Orthodoxy, carried the fences to their own denominational circle, dug new holes, and then erected the fences around themselves. Heresy in their minds now becomes anything that falls outside of the boundaries of their own isolated traditions, even if it still falls within the boundaries of Christianity at large. My challenge to people who think this way is to think carefully about what orthodoxy truly is and to make a definitive formulation of it, using strictly the guidelines of Scripture. If someone is dead set into thinking that their personal or denominational doctrinal statement is the definition of Christian Orthodoxy, and the 100% pure, perfect interpretation of Scripture, then I don’t know what to say other than they are the ones bordering on heresy, if not already there.      

The previous two passages are probably the most relevant Scriptures on the subject. Other passages on separation are clearly either talking about separating from the world, from sin or from doctrines which would exclude someone from being a Christian. Passages such as: 

2 Corinthians 6, the “come out from among them” passage. These instructions are clearly dealing with separation from unbelievers (2 Cor. 6:14). 

 1 Timothy 6:1-6 Paul tells Timothy “from such withdraw thyself,” but he is talking about withdrawing from people who consent not to doctrine which leads to godliness. Stay away from people saying that “gain is godliness.” Again this is a matter of sin, not differing doctrinal opinions. The same can be said for 2 Timothy 3:5.

2 Thessalonians 3:6 “Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.” Here we are told to not keep company with “believers” who are “walking disorderly,” which means “irresponsible, or lazy.” Again this is not a doctrinal issue, but a sin issue. Disorderly brethren are those who are in the church only to drain the money, resources, time and life out of the church and are therefore detrimental to its health and unity. When Paul says that they are not walking after the “traditions,” he is talking about the custom or practice of hard work (2 Thess. 3:8), which is obvious if you read the passage. What is not being referred to here – which I have heard people say before – is that the “traditions” refer to the “old paths” of one’s own denomination. Therefore, if anyone is beginning to adopt beliefs or practices (traditions) that differ from their particular denominational roots, then they are becoming “disorderly” and should be separated from. This is a very sad interpretation of the passage and couldn’t be farther from the truth. Not all traditions are bad, some are very good, but they become bad when they are elevated to the level of Scripture. When this happens, a Pharisaical, separatist, self-righteous spirit is fostered, which causes needless division in the Body of Christ.

Perhaps some other Scriptures could be listed, but they would still fit into the categories listed above. 

The emphasis of the New Testament in regards to disagreements among brethren is clearly a call for unity, not separation. 

Every healthy family has disagreements, but at the end of the day we “own” one another and are obligated to dwell in peace. A normal part of home life is learning how to understand each other’s differences and figuring out ways that we can work together as a family to serve one another and other people. Family members can certainly get out of hand to the point where they become abusive or dangerous and there of necessity needs to be a separation for the safety of the rest of the family, but this certainly is a rare occasion and should only be exercised when absolutely necessary. In order to take this step we really have to conclude that this person is by default dangerous. 

God’s Church is a family (1 Timothy 5:1-2) – a big, world-wide, very diverse, spiritual family. We are called God’s household: God is our Father; we are the bride of Christ, and he is also called our older brother. This makes every born-again Christian brothers and sisters in Christ. An argument could be made that this family is actually more significant than our own flesh and blood family in the grand scheme of things because it is the eternal family of God. 

Jesus made it clear that “he that is not with me is against me (Mat. 12:30),” and “he that is not against us is on our part (Mark 9:40).” From God’s perspective, every person is either one of his true, precious children, part of the family, valuable as one of his servants. Or, they do not belong to Him, are not a member in the family, are His enemy and the enemy of His people. We ought to view people in the same way God does. Christians that I disagree with (and that would be every one of them) are nevertheless my eternal family members, teammates and co-laborers, whether I like it or not. My success, and the success of the Gospel is dependent upon their success as well. If they fail, I fail as well. If we refuse to pass the ball to our teammates, or kick them while they are down, we are only shooting ourselves in the foot.  

Some Scripture…

1 Corinthians 1:10 Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.” God wants “no divisions” in his church and no “schisms” in the body (1 Cor. 12:25). Now of course, there is the unfortunate event that if a member of the body is walking in open, unrepentant sin that is clearly condemned in Scripture, or if damnable heresies are being espoused and not repented of, they should be disciplined and excommunicated (1 Cor. 5 – get rid of the leaven). Otherwise, God wants unity. We are admonished to learn how to work through disagreements with one another with Christian charity (1 Cor. 13) and be willing to minimize our preferences and opinions (whether doctrinal or practical) in our relationships with one another (1 Cor. chapters 8-10; Romans 14) so that others may be saved (1 Cor. 10:33; John 17). 

Ephesians 4:3-6 “Endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling; one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.” There is only one true Jesus and one true Gospel. Anyone who has come to God with repentance and faith in Christ has been washed in the same blood and born of the same Spirit. We have been born again by the same Word of God, have the same great commission, and are looking forward to the same Heaven. There are not different heavens for different kinds of Christians, or separate denominational wings in the heavenly mansion. Therefore, we ought to “endeavor” or “do everything in our power,” to maintain a spirit of unity among true believers. Can we have disagreements? Yes, in fact we should. We should debate one another and challenge one another to grow and strive for excellence. If it ever does come to a point where we part ways, it ought to be clear that we are confirming our love towards one another, receiving one another (Romans 14), and still striving to communicate and find possible ways that we can still relate to and colabor with each other. Is it ok to have different churches? Sure, so long as we still consider one another members of the one true Body of Christ and valuable, co-laborers in the Kingdom of God. 

John 17:20-23 “Neither pray I for these alone, but for them also which shall believe on me through their word; that they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us: that the world may believe that thou hast sent me. And the glory which thou gavest me I have given them; that they may be one, even as we are one: I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me.” This is not a prayer only to be achieved in heaven, but is meant to be fulfilled while the church is still on the earth. The prayer is that we “all may be one (or, unified).” We cannot get around the fact that God passionately desires for all Christians to be unified. Do you share this same passion with God? Part of the achievement of this unity is separation – yes – separation from sin and true heresy. But another part of seeing this prayer answered and unity accomplished is through grace, mercy, patience, and through…wait for it…yes I’ll say it…compromise. Yes – the most dreadful word of all to hyper-separatist brethren! But compromise is neither a good nor an evil thing in and of itself. By definition compromise means: an agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions. What makes it good or evil is what we compromise over. If we make agreements with the devil, with sin, with the flesh, or with damnable heresies, then yes compromise is a slippery slope to destruction, and will only fuel further division among true believers. However, if we hold to our preferences, opinions and traditions so strongly that we refuse to seek cooperation with other believers who don’t share those convictions; then wrongly label them as heretics, and only speak evil of them, we are causing needless divisions among the body of Christ. We then are working against the prayer of Jesus in John 17. We should be people of great personal conviction, but at the same time be people of great acceptance of others in the Faith. Every healthy family compromises continually with one another for peace, unity and the furtherance of the family’s mission. One evidence of being filled with the Spirit is that we “submit to one another in the fear of God (Ephesians 5).” Romans 14 tells us to “receive one another” to the glory of God!

We could list many, many more verses that support the emphasis of Christian unity in the Bible, but these should suffice for now. Our default posture in relating to Christians we disagree with should be understanding, peace, unity and practical collaboration with mutually pure consciences.   

So should Christians ever divide over doctrine? 

Again, assuming we mean genuinely born-again, faithful, humble, balanced, evangelical, Bible-believing Christians – As far as I can tell from the New Testament, there is nothing that mandates or requires separation from other Christians on the basis of differing doctrinal opinions – so long as those opinions still fall within the parameters of Biblical (Christian) Orthodoxy. All of the passages that require separation are either in the context of avoiding (1) “Christians” living in open, unrepentant sin, (2) professing “Christians” who are promoting doctrines that are antithetical to the Gospel, or (3) “Christians” who are not necessarily preaching false doctrine, but are continually being divisive and schismatic among the church (which would be sinful and would really put them back into (1) that I listed here). 

So, if separation is not mandated, is it ever permissible or allowable

One other passage that comes to mind would be Galatians 2:11-13, “But when Peter was come to Antioch, I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed. For before that certain came from James, he did eat with the Gentiles: but when they were come, he withdrew and separated himself, fearing them which were of the circumcision. And the other Jews dissembled likewise with him; insomuch that Barnabas also was carried away with their dissimulation.”

It could be said, “See, here is an instance where Paul was rebuking another brother by name (Peter) and distancing himself from him.” However, I think this passage actually serves to support the opposite position of calling for Christian unity, not separation. Peter was the one who was wrong in this encounter. What was he doing that was wrong? “He withdrew and separated himself” from other genuine believers, and he did so because he was afraid of what his circle of believers would think about him. So Paul did the right thing in rebuking him. Paul was passionate for the unification of Jew and Gentile in the church, and Peter was serving to undermine the Gospel’s purity and power by maintaining separation where it was unnecessary. Peter was at best supporting class-distinctions in the church, and at worst was lending support to the false gospel of the Judaizers. What happened in the end? The outcome isn’t told, but we have every reason to believe that Peter yielded to Paul’s admonition, based on how he surrendered to God in the story of Cornelius, as well as how Peter in his older age praised the unity of Jew & Gentile in his letters as well as categorizing Paul’s letters (which would presumably include Galatians) as Scripture. So this passage is not mandating separation from other Christians. If anything it serves to show that we should be striving to maintain the unity of the church, and also that there are times when it is appropriate for us to challenge one another over our stances. 

Another passage that comes to mind is the account of Paul and Barnabas parting ways for their second missionary journey (Acts 15:36-). They disagreed so strongly about whether to take Mark with them that they decided it would be best to part ways – Paul would take Silas, and Barnabas would take Mark. A few things to mention here: (1) This was not a doctrinal dispute, but rather a preference of how to operate the ministry, so it wouldn’t support the view of brothers in Christ dividing over doctrine. (2) This instance is neither put in a positive or negative light by Luke. He doesn’t state whether either of them were sinning in this disagreement, or who was right and who was wrong. The story is just stated as it happened. Therefore, this isn’t necessarily a good passage to point to as our example if we are going to use it to support separating from other believers. (3) However, I do think that it serves to show that there may be times when fellow believers will disagree about something so strongly, that the best course of action for the present moment would be to part ways and do ministry in a different context. It would be better for Paul & Barnabas to both be at peace and doing what they believed God wanted them to be doing, than to be arguing and not wholehearted in their missionary endeavor. That being said, a few cautions: (1) There is absolutely no indication that Paul or Barnabas thought the other was a “heretic” or being “displeasing” to God or “causing division,” etc. (2) They still considered themselves co-laborers in the Gospel. There is no indication that they eventually departed with hard feelings or being offended. If they would have by providence crossed paths at some town during their journeys, they would have embraced one another, identified with each other and perhaps even ministered in that same area with one another. We have no account of that happening, but the passage does say that they “were recommended by the grace of God,” suggesting their efforts were being blessed by the church. Also, everything else we have from the New Testament about Paul and Barnabas suggests that would have been the outcome. 

So, it seems from a passage like this that there may arise times when we are faced with situations as fellow believers where we feel so strongly about a particular issue that we decide to part ways, not because we are required to, or because we think that the other party is “unclean,” but rather because we think that there is perhaps a more perfect way, and we feel like we need to follow our convictions. Additionally, there may just be practical outcomes of our convictions that would make it difficult or impossible to operate a ministry with clarity alongside of others who have different convictions. That being said, if those decisions are made to part ways, it should be crystal clear to the parties involved, and to any other believers who observe it, that you are both confirming your love towards one another; that no one is being kicked out of the kingdom; and that people are not inappropriately being called heretics if they truly are not. 

The U.S. Armed Forces

A very helpful illustration to me for how division should or could work properly in the context of the Christian church is to observe the United States Armed Forces. The military is ultimately only one unit – one body – with one leader (the president). However, there are six distinct branches of service (the Army, Marines, Navy, Space, Air Force, and Coast Guard) and inside of each of those major branches there are all kinds of various divisions according to the many needs that exist in defending a nation. Why not just have one military, with one branch, one training, all doing the same thing? Because the divisions actually help facilitate more specialized training and strategic placement than if everything was all bunched in together. But even though each branch is different (even has a different ethos to them, oftentimes you can see a brotherly rivalry amongst them) they all serve under that one flag of the United States and under the commander in Chief. When it comes time to fight they all fight and live or die together. 

It doesn’t seem to me that uncooperative division from other faithful Christians is ever mandated or encouraged in Scripture. Instead I see the opposite: a plea for the unity of the Faithful, since we are in a war – the greatest war of all! There is only one Christian Nation, one Christian army, and we are all under the leadership of our One Commander-in-Chief, the Lord Jesus Christ. If another brother or denomination is teaching or doing something that you really just cannot get and you think it is detrimental to the progress of the Gospel – to his own master he standeth or falleth. That brother is under authority and God will deal with him. Our responsibility is to do our best to still work together with them to the best of our ability. Those other Christians that you disagree with – where do you see them on the battlefield? Do they have enemy uniforms on, or do they just have on a uniform from a different branch of the military? Deep down they hate the Devil and want to rescue others from his prison as well.  

Cheerful Children

How to develop and keep consistently cheerful & content children. 

Our homes are meant to be happy places. The addition of children is only supposed to make it even more happy. Children really are amazing – they are cute, creative and funny in ways that adults have just forgotten how to be. God’s will for our homes is that they would be filled with a consistent atmosphere of joy and contentment. We cannot expect perfection from the kids: we live in a fallen world and we would be demanding them to be something that we ourselves fail to be. However, we should expect that our children receive their rightful place, which is to be gladly obedient and under submission. Their role is to be a good-natured citizen of the home – a joyful participant – not a tyrannical, fit-throwing dictator. If this is God’s design and desire, then it is possible (with God’s grace and practical, Biblical wisdom) to develop these traits consistently in them. We will look at two ways to achieve this goal… 

  1. Insistent, Persistent & Consistent Discipline. 
  2. Modeling Cheerfulness & Humility. 

Discipline

Children do not come into the world angels; neither are they demons; but kinda somewhere in between. They are made in our image – meaning they got some work to do. Children arrive to the world morally deformed and corrupt needing reformation and correction. Psalm 58:3 says “The wicked are estranged from the womb: they go astray as soon as they be born, speaking lies.” Psalm 51:5 David says, “Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me.” Ephesians 2:3 tells us that those cute little bundles are “by nature children of wrath.” Children come into the world very needy: they need love, comfort; they need to be fed, changed and played with – but they are also in desperate need of correction & discipline. If they have a poopy diaper, are overtired or miss a meal they will not be content and cheerful; but neither will they be content and cheerful if they go without much needed rebukes and spankin’s. 

Discipline by definition is the practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior: using punishment to correct disobedience and rewards to praise obedience. Children can be trained. In fact, they are always being trained – every day – the code of behavior (the culture of their home) is being instilled in them. The question though is: which code of behavior are they being trained to follow? Are they being trained to obey or disobey? Children will not naturally grow into patient, submissive, quiet, cheerful creatures. That kind is possible, but it requires dedicated training on the part of the parent. Like anything in this world that we want to work seamlessly, parenting requires focused and faithful attention. A conditioned athlete cannot miss practices and fudge their healthy eating routine. Neither will a child become conditioned to joy if parents regularly skip moments of training. So, we need to train our children to obey. How do we do this? Three key elements are being insistent, persistent and consistent in our discipline. 

 Insistent. The first thing we need to do in training is to give our children crystal clear instructions. There must be no confusion with either parent or child about what the rules are. For example:  

  • How many times is it acceptable to disobey mommy or daddy? 
  • What kind of attitude is required when we obey?
  • Must the children obey immediately, or can they take their time and obey when their schedule permits?  
  • What is the consequence for disobedience?
  • Is everyone on the same page here???

It should go without saying, but we will say it anyhow – that it is the parents who should be making the rules, not the children. And this being the case – it is also the parents responsibility to make sure that everyone keeps the rules – EVERY TIME. So, right now, in your home life, how many times is it ok for your child to disobey? The only right answer should be zero. If that is your rule as a parent – are you keeping the rules by ensuring that every single time they are disobedient they receive the appropriate consequence? If not, then are you not training your children to be disobedient? If you don’t keep the rules, then why should they? The only correct posture for a parent to assume is that of insistence. We must demand that our children (God’s children that we are responsible for) do the right thing. Refusing to obey, mocking, throwing fits, laughing, running away, screaming and damaging things are not acceptable. If you allow your children to do any of these, and you allow them to consistently do these things, then you are training your children to be discontent and unhappy. Every single time there is disobedience, there needs to be a fitting consequence. So, what is the Biblical method of correction? Hint: it is not giving them a cookie or privileging them with watching a movie.  

Proverbs 13:24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes (early, diligently).

Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.

Proverbs 23:13-14 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell. 

Proverbs 29:15 The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.

The Bible is very, very consistently clear – The Biblically prescribed method of discipline is not yelling; it is not giving them a “time out;” or putting them on drugs; but is rather corporal punishment (physical punishment): the Rod. Whatever tool you use, it is understood that force needs to be appropriate to the age and physical constitution of the child. Our goal is not to damage or abuse the child; but the rod is not accomplishing its purpose if it does not hurt. A more precise goal is that we are looking for it to sting. Spanking on the butt is a great place, since it is tender, but also well padded. And also, instinct just seems to point us in that direction for some reason.  

So, here we go. The child knows the rules. You know the rules. Dad or Mom gives a simple command, the child obeys quickly and cheerfully and everyone stays happy. Or, the child disobeys: he or she does not swiftly and cheerfully obey. Dad or Mom removes the child from the situation to a private location, and said child receives an appropriate “bee sting” for being foolish. Which leads us to the next element of effective discipline: persistence. 

This is a very important moment in the correction process. It can make or break your whole effort. What do you do, as a parent, if you are in the “correction room,” in the very act of administering corporal punishment, and your child is still breaking the rules: not being submissive; not being completely obedient to you? What are you to do? Well, what are the rules? If they are not cheerfully obedient, every single time – including, and especially including now – then they need a few more “bee stings” in the bee-hind. Disobedience has not been fully dealt with until there is 100%, absolute, cheerful submission. The self-will of the child must be broken and surrendered to the supreme-will of the parent. There should be no bad attitude; zero hesitation to comply; If they are old enough there needs to be verbal apologies. If this is done correctly: parent and child will both emerge from the correction chamber cheerful, settled and at peace. A sense of purity, righteousness and reconciliation should fill the air. The parent should have total confidence that they are in absolute control of the house and the child. 

Now, if this is done, and done consistently, the good news is that the child will be conditioned with the mindset that their parents don’t play games. What is the result? They are going to more consistently keep the rules, because who likes bee-stings? And what are the rules? If I am happy and submissive then mommy is happy.

The third key element in effective discipline has already been alluded to several times: the all important practice of being consistent. Parenting is a full time job and a primary job. If there is anything more important to you than your child’s welfare, then your priorities are mixed up. And part of their welfare is getting an attitude change as much as a diaper change. Take the time to deal with their disobedience now, or else you will be forced to deal with their disobedience later (and it will take more time and energy later). The happiness and contentment of your child will largely depend on how consistent you are in discipline. If it is occasional their cheerfulness will be occasional; if it is sporadic, then you are communicating to your child that they are not that important; they are not worthy of continual care. But if you are diligent; if you raise the standard to happiness, and keep the bar there, then that’s most likely where they will live. There should not be one time when your child is ruling the roost. They will attempt a run on your rightful authority at times, but that needs to be nipped in the bud.  

Having covered the process of insistent, persistent and consistent discipline. We will conclude with an encouragement to model cheerfulness & humility to our children. Most things are better caught than taught. Children are very impressionable. If you are gentle and cheerful (combined with giving them consistent and godly discipline), chances are – they will be too. If you yell at your kids while givin’ them a whoopin’, or instead of givin’ them a whoopin’, then you are not keeping the rules and it would be good for them to see you apologize for doing wrong. If you fail to correct and punish them for wrongdoing, it would also do them good for you to apologize for that. Children respond better to action than anger. If you are frustrated with your children (which is probably due to you not training them properly) and you react to them in an unkind way, then they are probably going to react to you and others in unkind ways. Paul tells us to provoke not our children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4) We are to rear them up in the same way that the Lord rears us. Our Father is strict, but he is also lenient, kind and merciful. He is firm, but gentle. He always responds to our disobedience, but does not weigh us down with burdens too hard to bear. Children are childish, we must remember that; just as our Father knows our frame and remembers that we are dust. We should pity our children as God pities us. Reassure them that you love them, that you forgive them, and that you understand that it is hard to be a child. Make sure they know that you are sorry for not being a perfect parent: for the times when you are too hard, and for the times when you are too soft. Hate disobedience in them and hate it also in yourself. Be as eager to vanquish wrongdoing in yourself – in this parent-child relationship – as much as you are to vanquish it in them. Discontentment and disobedience is from the Devil, so don’t let him in your home. 

No one wants a child who could at any moment blow up and completely change the family plans. If we follow God’s wisdom in this area, we will enjoy God’s blessing in this area: Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul. (Proverbs 29:17)

Heresy Hypocrisy – Labeling Others “Heretics”

Sometimes . . . Sometimes some Christians are a little too trigger happy dropping the H-Bomb on other believers. Some Christians feel that anyone who disagrees on basically any point of doctrine or practice with them automatically needs to be branded as an Heretic. This is, unfortunately, very egregious and also ironic: egregious because it’s essentially categorizing a fellow Christian saint as worse than an unbeliever, and ironic because those most often shooting the heresy arrows are the ones closest to actually committing heresy themselves (I’ll explain more a little later). As always, we must first go to the Scriptures to understand what heresy actually is, then we will understand who the heretics really are. Hopefully as a result of reading this you will be more reluctant to drop the heresy bomb on fellow Christians…

What is heresy? 

The New Testament idea of heresy has reference to sectarianism (sect, separatist), factions (cliques) or dissensions (disagreements that lead to discord). The term is used mostly in reference to “sects” among Judaism. The Pharisees and Sadducees are both seen as “sects” in the Jewish community. Paul was accused of being “the ringleader of the sect of the Nazarenes (Acts 24:5),” which in the beginning the Church was simply seen as a new wing of Judaism. Peter made pretty clear his understanding of heresy when he warned, “But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction.” (2 Peter 2:1) In Peter’s mind, heretics are those who sneak into the church, wolves in sheep’s clothing, with selfish ambition, who teach doctrines and encourage practices that damn people to Hell. Paul instructed Titus, “A man that is an heretic (αἱρετικός factious; divisive) after the first and second admonition reject…” (Titus 3:10) Heretics are fake Chrisitians who make it their career to be division-makers or schismatics among the true people of God.

Moving to a more standard, common English usage of the word heresy would be: beliefs or opinions contrary to orthodox religious (especially Christian) doctrine; dissension, non-conformity. This conveys more of the idea I think that most people are working with today. So according to this definition, heresy is a belief or opinion that is contrary to Christian Orthodoxy. Well, how do we know what orthodoxy (or, right doctrine) is? A simple way is to just ask: what are the doctrines & practices which virtually all evangelical, Bible-believing Christians have agreed on historically and are in agreement with today? In answering that question, we will compile a list that looks very similar to this one – Belief that the Bible is the Word of God; God is our Creator; God is Triune; Jesus is fully God and fully Man; the Virgin birth; The Gospel: the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Chist; Salvation is by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone; We must be baptized, join the church, observe the Lord’s Supper, and do our best to fulfill the Great Commission as we obey the Great Commandments of loving God with our whole heart and our neighbor as ourselves…Heretics are people who despise this way of life that I just outlined; they really want to change it, attempt to pull away as many others away from it as they possibly can, and then they draw a circle around their group and call it “orthodoxy.” 

When we combine the Biblical idea with the English understanding we have a pretty clear understanding that heretics are posers, fakers, who are peddling doctrines or practices that, if followed, will cause the hearers to perish. The goal of the heretic is not to unify God’s people, but to intentionally divide them. They like to draw lines and circles in-between God’s people, and force people to choose sides. Examples of genuine heresy would be Roman Catholicism, Jehovah’s Witnesses or the Latter Day Saints (Mormons). Each of these groups arose from within true Christianity and began saying things like, “Unless you think like us and practice like us, you are not a true Christian. If you continue to hold to the doctrines that have been held by Christians for centuries and centuries (True Orthodoxy), then you are being deceived and will be condemned by God.” This is heresy. The person who you are calling a heretic – are you willing to place them in the same category as these guys? If not, then stop calling them a heretic. How about you just say that you don’t agree with “such and such” that they believe or practice? 

Unlike the cults, here are some examples of things that are NOT heresy, but are commonly labeled as heretical by some Christians…

  1. Church or Denominational affiliation – If a fellow Christian or Church is Bible-Believing and Evangelical (meaning, if they hold to the fundamentals of the faith: Christian Orthodoxy as outlined above), but they are not part of the same group as you, then they are NOT heretics. They may have doctrines or practices that are different from yours; they may even have wrong or weak positions, but that does NOT make them heretics.  
  2. Bible Versions – If a fellow believer is a Born-Again Christian, who confesses the same Gospel as you, but they use a different Bible version, they are NOT heretics. Even if we said for the sake of argument that their translation of choice is inferior to yours, this still does not make them heretics. What truths are they confessing? 
  3. Music or worship style – Let’s just say another Christian or Church has very poor music taste, and it’s even obvious that the emphasis of their corporate worship is sensual and worldly – this is still NOT heresy. 
  4. Calvinist/Arminian/Other – Let’s assume that there are some believers who are off in some way on their understanding of the infinite nature of God and the mysterious way in which God brings salvation to us (who among us can say that they have all of this figured out?). If our brother or sister is still confessing the One Triune God and that we must believe in Christ and Christ alone for salvation, then he or she is – guess what – NOT an heretic. 
  5. Dispensational/Covenant Theology – Someone may have an errant or weak view of the structure of Scripture, of history and of God’s relationship between Israel and the Church, but these things also do NOT make them an heretic.  
  6. Dress – Someone may even just outright dress immodestly, and not at all have a problem with it, but that also does NOT make them an heretic. 
  7. The same things could be said for those who hold balanced views of the charismatic gifts/those who do not, to different styles of preaching/evangelism, to those who have different forms of eschatology, etc. etc. etc. 

Christianity is really Big. Scripture describes the Church as a Nation. Within the borders of this nation (within Orthodoxy) is a broad range of beliefs and practices: there are various opinions on non-essential matters. With all of this diversity there are some beliefs and practices that are weak and others that are excellent. We can and should have brotherly, in-house discussions and disagreements on these topics, but at the end of the day we still are obliged by God to embrace one another, lock arms and then with a united spirit fight against anti-Christs and anti-Christianity wherever we find it. 

However… if instead of seeking unity you decide to huddle together in your little clique, draw an iron circle around yourselves and then build huge, fortified walls along those lines, thus boxing out the rest of the Christian Nation; then array yourselves on top of your walls to fire fiery heresy arrows at other Christians (especially those approaching your gates attempting to seek peace); then erect the flag of “Christian Orthodoxy” over your city; and only admit into membership those who submit to your particular rules and customs – – – My friend, YOU are the one playing footsie with Heresy. You are the one drawing lines and causing division; you are the one creating factions: smaller groups within the larger group; you are the one forcing believers to make a choice: “Be a part of this circle and be right with God, or don’t be a part of this circle and don’t be right with God, but you cannot be outside of this circle and be right with God at the same time.” If this is your heart and your practice, you are sipping from the same cup that “Christian” cults are, and it’s making you tipsy.  

If there is another brother who is a Born-Again, Bible-believing, humble, faithful Christian, who is simply trying to love God and serve God according to his conscience, but he disagrees with your particulars; if he dissents from your particularities – and you are labeling him as a heretic – you need to stop. You need to repent, confess that sin to God, and humbly return to your brother and confirm your love to him. You don’t need to agree with him, but you do need to learn how to disagree agreeably. Has Jesus received him? Then you need to receive him. “Wherefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God.” (Romans 15:7) We are either for Christ or against Him. So are you really willing to say that such and such a brother is against Christ (an anti-Christ)?

Christian Perfection

In Matthew 5:48 Jesus commanded his followers, “Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.” So the question is, “Can a Christian be perfect?” The simple answer is, “Yes!” Jesus’s clear command is for us to be perfect. He’s not going to command his people to do something that they are not capable of doing. But not only is perfection possible, it is also the standard at which we must continually live as Christians. Perfection is possible, yes, but it is also the requirement. Anything less than perfection is unacceptable to God. The key idea in this article is understanding what is meant by perfection. It is clear that Jesus taught perfection, so let’s say it like it is, and then strive to come to a balanced understanding of what he means. 

Some people wrongly teach that a Christian can arrive at a state of spiritual maturity where they will never sin again, but this is an extreme, unbiblical position. We live in a fallen world, filled with wickedness, and we – though saints of the most High – still reside in fallen, fleshly bodies. As Christians we are washed in the blood of the Lamb, Amen! But our “feet get dirty” as we walk through this life and need to be washed often (John 13). Even the most godly Christians on the planet find themselves continually in this struggle between the flesh and the Spirit. In fact, it often seems the more holy a person truly is, the more unholy they feel, because they have a heightened sensitivity to the enormous standard of absolute holiness and perfection that God dwells in, and also their own spiritual weaknesses. 

But then there is another extreme, I believe, which is to lower the standard away from perfection, and conceive that God’s expectation for the Christian is just a little better than the world, or to live up to what the church or your family or friends expect. The misconception runs like this: “Perfection? Well, no one is going to be able to do that,” and then the person moves on without clearly defining how holy we need to be in order to please God. This is an error and has negative consequences as well as extreme forms of “Christian Perfectionism.” If the Christian doesn’t have a clear standard then they are going to make their own- what they think is holy enough – which is inevitably going to be less holy than the standard. So let’s see if we can arrive at a balanced, Biblical understanding of this topic…

What is the Standard? 

I want to press a little more on this, because I think many Christians are not willing to confess that perfection is the standard. Jesus said, “Be perfect,” so if that doesn’t mean perfection then what does it mean? Consider also 1 Peter 1:14-16 which says, “As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance: But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.” Here, the apostle Peter reminds us of God’s Law that we are to be holy as God is holy. Now, how holy is God? God is totally holy. So, again, the standard is absolute purity – a life in total dedication and consecration to God – anything less is sinful and unacceptable to God…Do you believe this? If we want to be right with God, we must make sure that we are doing and being what he says. Don’t be afraid of how some people abuse a doctrine. Confess it, open your heart, and ask God to teach you. 

How are we to understand Perfection? 

We know from all over Scripture that true righteousness is not attained by works or human effort, but rather by faith. The unbeliever must first recognize that they have already sinned and are worthy of Hell; that God’s standard for justification, for union with God, and for acceptance into heaven is total purity; and then they must realize that the only way to achieve that level of righteousness is by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone. It must be a righteousness that is not their own, an imputed righteousness (a righteousness that is applied to their moral account by someone outside of themselves). So righteousness, holiness, perfection and related qualities are NOT to be seen as achieved through human effort (at least not our own effort, but rather Jesus’s effort). We must understand Jesus’ teachings on Perfection in light of this fuller, more fundamental teaching of Scripture, about the way of righteousness & holiness – that of faith. Following Jesus’ command to “be perfect” does not mean that I am never going to sin again. What it does mean is that whenever I do sin, I quickly and humbly confess that sin to God and ask for cleansing with gratefulness to Jesus Christ for his all-sufficient blood that was shed for that sin. This is the foundation of perfection – having a broken heart about your sins, moment by moment; walking humbly with your God; not making any excuses for your sins, but quickly acknowledging and confessing. We could call this imputed holiness. It is a holiness, or perfection that comes to us from outside of ourselves. Yes, it does change us, but there is also an immediate sanctification that comes when a Christian is broken and repenting of their sins. 

Other ways that the word “perfect” in the New Testament could be translated would be that of “maturity” or “completeness.” This is helpful, because we can say that someone is mature, even though we know that in some way, shape or form they probably have some kinds of “imperfections” in their life. But, it may be objected, the standard is perfection from God’s perspective, not man’s perspective. I agree, and I think we’re getting at the heart of something here. There is at least some sense in which we can say that God would consider someone spiritually mature, even though He clearly knows that they are flesh and bones- weak and faulty, and will forever be less than God Himself. Perfection cannot mean equality with God in all of His divine attributes – or else we would be God! So, in what way would it be proper for God to see a man as being “mature” or “complete” even though he has imperfections, as compared with God?

King David

We remember verses in the Bible like the following, “and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as the heart of David his father.” (1 Kings 15:3) God used David’s life as a standard or ruler by which to measure the success or failure of the kings that followed him. Buuuut, we know that David wasn’t all that great, on more than one occasion. So in what sense did God consider David a perfect man? What God was really looking for (perfection) was not that David would never sin, but rather that David was a man after God’s own heart. David loved God with all of his heart, and wanted to please Him more than anything else – and God could see that in him! Additionally, when David sinned and he was confronted about it, how did he respond? Just read Psalm 51 – David’s Psalm of Repentance. In this Psalm we find this powerful and related verse: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.” (Psalms 51:17) God is not looking for people who He knows will never sin again. He is looking for people who never want to sin again, and for Christian who, when they sin, readily and humbly confess those sins. Perfection is not being a spiritual machine that constantly is on their knees praying, serving the poor, loving their wife, teaching their kids, displaying kindness and compassion, preaching a sermon, and working diligently at work all at the same time! Of course I am exaggerating, but there are some people (maybe even yourself) who live under a weight of thinking that God will only be happy with them if they were as powerful, wise, and industrious as God Himself is! 

As A Man Thinketh In His Heart So Is He

If we live this kind of life – a life where our heart’s desire is to wholeheartedly please God, and then when we find ourselves overwhelmed by sin and we quickly repent – what do you think is going to be the trajectory of that person’s spiritual life? Are they going to be thriving spiritually, or be wilting? Are they going to sin more or sin less as time goes on? We are never going to arrive at a perpetually and permanently sinless condition (not on this side of the grave anyway), but if we have a perfect heart towards God we will sin less.  

I also want to mention that we have to keep in mind the Biblical doctrine of Progressive Sanctification – which is the idea that when we are Born Again, we are not immediately, in every way totally perfected. Our standing with God is that of perfection (positional righteousness), but practically, the New Birth is just the beginning of a new spiritual life and relationship with God, in which we must grow spiritually. There are new Chrisitans, who know little of the Word, who must be weaned on the milk first. But the main thing to point out is that this idea of being perfect or not, in practice, begins at day one. Is the new believer obeying what they know? They may know little, and have little experience, but are they being faithful to God according to what they know? If so, they are walking perfectly before God. Contrarily, if an old timer in the faith is not walking humbly; has perhaps allowed some strongholds to form into his life; and has developed the ability to be somewhat calloused to it – this brother is not walking perfectly with God. He may be actually stronger than the newborn Christian in many areas of life, because of knowledge and experience, but this brother is not pleasing God as well as the younger, because he is not currently walking perfectly before God.   

God is expecting us to be sinless. Period. And the way to do that is by confessing any known sin, right now to God. His promise is that “if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9) God is faithful. If we repent and confess, then right now, we are sinless. If we truly have a humble heart like this, consistently, the natural outgrowth is that the actions themselves are going to follow. 

I hope this has brought you some clarity on this subject. I don’t claim to understand this doctrine perfectly, but I have not heard much spoken on it from a balanced perspective and haven’t heard explanations that give a satisfactory answer to what Jesus’ idea of perfection is, while at the same time to caution against extremes on both sides of the issue. It is impossible to please God if you are half-hearted. He wants your whole heart.