Love: God’s Definition

Charity (Agape) – Love, benevolence, good will

LOVE = When I suffer, so other people can be blessed

THE LOVE OF GOD = Jesus suffered so we could be blessed.

  • The Greatest Commandment *First fruit of the Spirit *You are nothing without this 
  • The more excellent (superior/extraordinary) way. Better than any skill, talent, resource or ability
  1. Suffereth longpatient 

Longsuffering: Bearing injuries or provocation (annoyance; poking) for a long time

Patient: Having the quality of enduring evils without murmuring or fretfulness (irritation); sustaining afflictions of body or mind with fortitude, calmness and Christian submission to the divine will; Calm under the sufferance of injuries or offenses; not revengeful; not eager or hasty. 

1 Thessalonians 5:14 Be patient toward all men.

*The days of Noah, long suffering to us-ward…

  1. Kind – kind, gentle 

Gentle: mild; meek; soft; considerate; not rough, harsh or severe; as a gentle nature, temper or disposition; Tame; peaceable; not wild, as a gentle horse.

Luke 6:35 for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the holy

Think of all the people who receive rain, sun and good things from God. 

Ephesians 4:32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. 

*You can have the right position with the wrong disposition (temperament). 

  1. Envieth notenvy, resentment, rivalry, jealousy 

Envy: To feel uneasiness or discontent, at the sight of superior excellence, reputation or happiness enjoyed by another; to repine at another’s prosperity; to fret or grieve one’s self at the real or supposed superiority of another, and to hate him on that account.

*Joseph’s brothers. Saul was envious of David. Pharisees and Jesus. 

*What do you do & how do you feel when someone else is blessed?

  1. Vaunteth not itselfto boast, brag, be arrogant, prideful  external 

Boast: to make a display of one’s own worth; to talk with excessive pride and self satisfaction about one’s achievements, possessions, or abilities. 

Proverbs 27:2 let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth 

2 Cor 10:10 for not he that commendeth himself is approved, but whom the Lord commendeth

How do you handle winning or being better than others? What does boasting do to others? 

*Goliath Nebuchadnezzar (statue) Israel pride goes before destruction…  

  1. Not puffed upto inflate yourself (balloon), haughty, conceited internal 

Conceited: having an inordinate estimation of oneself; feeling important

Romans 12:3 not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly

“Why can’t they just be more like me…the world would be a much better place.”

  1. Doth not behave itself unseemlydisgraceful, ill-mannered, rude, indecent, improper; inappropriate  

*(1) Things that bring shame on others. (2) Things that bring shame on self. 

What things do you say or do that bring shame or disgrace on someone else? 

When you act shameful in front of others, what does that say about how you view them? 

1 Corinthians 14:40 Let all things be done decently (of high standing, proper) and in order 

Maintain the dignity (worthiness, respect) and honor of yourself and the others that are around you.

  1. Seeketh not her ownselfish, self-seeking, seeking one’s own interest or happiness above others 

Selfish: concerned excessively or exclusively with self. Lacking concern for others.  

*“I exist to make others happy, at the expense of my own happiness.” God is faithful.  

Hebrews 12:2 who for the joy that was set before him, endured the cross

Matthew 16:24 …let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me 

Healthy negotiation/compromise/settlement 

  1. Is not easily provokedto sharpen or excite heat; caused to be upset, irritated, made angry

James 1:19-20 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.

James 3:15-18 For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.

*What is at the root of being quick-tempered? – selfishness 

  1. Thinketh no evilkeeps no record of wrongs, forgives; is merciful; not treat others based on past failures

Hebrews 10:17 And their sins and iniquities will I remember no more.

Psalm 103:10-12 He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities…As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.

“You always . . . You never . . . Remember when . . . ”

  1. Rejoiceth not in iniquitynot glad when others commit sin, or when sin is present  

Ezekiel 33:11 I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked

David – Saul, Absalom   mercy triumphs over judgment 

How do you feel when other people get caught, punished or lose out? snitch 

  1. But rejoiceth in the truthglad when anyone does right, and when righteousness is proclaimed  

Are you more concerned about winning, or about truth being exalted; about “being right” or that what is right would happen?  

  1. Beareth all thingsto put up a roof; to keep confidential; to cover, to pass over in silence  

To put up with annoyance or difficulty; hides and excuses the faults of others 

1 Pet. 4:8 above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.  

Proverbs 11:13 a talebearer revealeth secrets, but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter 

Pro 17:9 He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.  *Joseph concealed Mary *Against Gossip/busybody How do you handle secrets? juicy info? 

Are you trying to protect other people or make them exposed? 

  1. Believeth all thingsconvinced, confidence, trust 

Love believes that another person’s repentance is real (70×7).      

Quick to give the benefit of the doubt. Not judging others’ motives 

How many chances does God give us?  

  1. Hopeth all thingshope for, expect to see

Love is hopeful for the improvement & success of others – those who you don’t like. *Jonah

Mark 10:27 With men it is impossible, but not with God: for with God all things are possible.  

  1. Endureth all thingsto stand one’s ground, persevere, remains, stays  

Love sticks it out- cheerfully and without murmuring. Love is loyal and faithful – even in the face of others seeking your hurt. Love doesn’t divorce; Love doesn’t just run.

Charity never failethto fail, weaken; to drift off course. *Want to succeed? 

1 Cor. 14:1  Follow (diligently pursue) after charity

But How? (1) Accept the standard (2) Repent (3) Meditate (4) Believe (5) Repeat #1-4 forever  

Police Can Engage Pursuit of Illegal Dirt Bikers

The reason given to me by a chief of police in Connecticut for why they do not engage in pursuit of illegal dirt bikes is because of what is called the Police Motor Vehicle Pursuit Policy. The policy states, “A police officer may only engage another vehicle in a pursuit if the officer has reasonable suspicion to believe that the driver or occupant has committed or is attempting to commit a crime of violence, or there are exigent circumstances that warrant the need to apprehend the suspect in a timely manner because of the potential for harm to the public if the apprehension does not occur. The officers must be able to articulate the exigent need to apprehend the driver or occupant because of the potential harm or risk to the public.”

The important phrase here is a “crime of violence.” It is said that an officer must prove that the occupant on the vehicle either just committed a crime of violence or is about to. So, it is reasoned, someone driving an unregistered dirt bike, speeding, doing wheelies, recklessly driving, disregarding street signs, and evading police do not fall under the category of a “crime of violence.” 

However, there is a critical qualifier: the policy also says, “…or there are exigent (pressing/demanding) circumstances that warrant the need to apprehend the suspect in a timely manner because of the potential harm to the public if the apprehension does not occur…” So pursuit does not only need to be justified on the grounds of a “crime of violence,” but could also include “exigent circumstances.” 

The following are reasons why the current illegal dirt bikers could be classified as “exigent circumstances,” and therefore be able to be pursued and stopped by police…

  1. Someone just died. Why did she die? On one hand she is responsible for breaking the law and putting herself in a very dangerous situation. But on the other hand, it would have been much, much more likely that she wouldn’t have had to have the temptation to get onto that bike if the public were not emboldened to do such activities with the permission of the authorities. So, yes, allowance of these bikers to continue unprevented is presenting pressing or demanding circumstances. Isn’t people needlessly dying enough cause to put an end to it?
  1. The general public is inordinately in danger of bodily harm because the illegal dirt bikers (1) drive recklessly with wheelies – presenting a dramatically increased potential for harm to themselves and others, (2) they are more often speeding than not, (3) they constantly disregard traffic lights and signs, (4) they drive on sidewalks, through yards, at playgrounds, etc. Maybe someone can help me with this, but wouldn’t the combination of all of these violations, repeatedly – on top of disregarding the police flagging them down – constitute more than mere infractions, and escalate pretty quickly to a misdemeanor or felony? 
  1. Allowance of them to freely operate their bikes illegally allows and encourages them to publically gather into mobs, which can and has dramatically increased the potential of erupting into mob violence, which the police have proven that they cannot handle. I have personally had two incidents in particular where this has happened…

(1) A young man was shot and killed last year in front of my house. The next day a mob of bikers essentially blocked traffic in front of my house (on a main road) and were also crowding in my yard and on my property. I called the police and a Sargent told me that they were not able to handle disbanding the crowd because of a lack of officers. What if this mob began to break into homes or attacked people? I was not able to bring my wife and three daughters home that night because of how dangerous and uncertain it was.

(2) In July of this year, our church was asked by a local police officer to evacuate the park because there was an imminent threat that a large group of bikers were planning to “take over” the park and for our safety we should leave. Isn’t this saying that these bikers are presenting dangers to the public – exigent circumstances? 

  1. Freely allowing these bikers to travel the streets with guaranteed no pursuit encourages and allows them to transport drugs or other illegal things freely. This provides an immediate increase in potential danger to our community through quicker and safer transportation of drugs and illegal firearms or other illegal means. We are already in the midst of an opioid/fentanyl/violence pandemic. The last thing we need is to provide secure transportation of those drugs and guns to people in this city.  

Aside from engaging in a pursuit, there must be some alternative way to apprehend this group of people (road blocks, stop sticks, or a combination of multiple tactics). These are a small group of (supposedly) unarmed young men on dirt bikes. Are these dirt bikers really a more powerful force than the entire police force? I don’t think so, but if they are, call in the National Guard. The public does not want them here, not one of them. We would be very glad if we never saw an illegal dirt bike on the roads again. The longer the problem is allowed to go on the more difficult and dangerous it is going to become. It needs to be clearly communicated to them that this city has a zero tolerance policy about this – “If you ride a bike in NL illegally, you will be immediately stopped by whatever means necessary and you will be charged with the full extent of the law.” 

Good, innocent people are in danger no matter which way we decide to move forward with the problem. People ARE getting hurt and killed. So who do you want killed? Engage in pursuit and do whatever you need to do to stop it. 

Aside from the danger that this presents, the situation simply gives these cities bad reputations and is a nuisance to our society. Who would want to move into a house or start a business where this is allowed to freely happen?  

I appreciate and pray for all of our law enforcement officers. They have been given their badge by God, and are responsible for a very difficult job. I pray that God will keep you safe, as well as give you wisdom and courage to reward those who do good, and punish those who do wrong.      

Aside from the civil problem and difficulty, there is a deeper spiritual problem here. Our society has increasingly disregarded God and pushed Him out of our lives. Because of this we have pushed away His wise and powerful Word and ways, and have adopted our own feeble and foolish ways. If we don’t want God’s authority then we will not get God’s wisdom, protection and blessing. Our homes are devoid of faithful fathers because our society wants to enjoy free sex, which the governmental schools encourage and the state subsidizes. We need to return back to our foundations, which is faith in Christ and obedience to the Bible. Go to church – a good church that preaches the Bible faithfully and strives to obey it. Get married and stay married. Have children and take responsibility for them. Instruct and discipline them. Home school your children or enroll them in a Christian school. Get a job and keep it – earn your own bread. This is the way to societal blessing, protection and flourishing. “Kiss the Son, lest he be angry, and ye perish from the way when his wrath is kindled but a little. Blessed are all they that put their trust in him.” Psalm 2  

Is Romans 8:28 applicable to all Christians? 

Romans 8:28 must be considered one of the most precious promises in all of the Bible: “And we know (for certain) that all things (ALL things) work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose (God has a good, glorious plan for our lives and He will accomplish it).” Talk about an all-encompassing, hope-filled, victorious promise! What is the promise? It is that we have a deep, abiding confidence that everything that happens in our lives – whether positive or the worst kind of negative we could imagine – all of it comes into our lives only with the authorization of our loving heavenly Father, and that His design for allowing it to come into our life is to bless us. No wonder Romans chapter 8 ends by saying that we are more than conquerors through him that loved us! 

But the big question we want to tackle here is this – Does this promise apply to all Christians? It doesn’t say that all things work together for good “Christians,” but rather for those who “love God.” So the main question that is really being answered is, “Who are these ones that are referred to that ‘love God.’” Either someone can be a genuine Christian and not be in the category of those who “love God.” Or, all Christians “love God” (at least in the sense of what is referred to in Romans 8:28). That’s what this article is about. I would like to attempt to prove that those who “love God” refers to all Christians. The ramifications I think are huge and pretty obvious: it is of untold assurance for us if it does apply to all Christians. If not, then it is not a little unsettling. The promise has been a high tower that many a Christian have run to, and the ones who probably need the promise the most are not those who are very mature and “have it all together,” but rather those believers who are weak, struggling and weary on the journey.  

Our main consideration in answering this questions will be to look at the context of Romans 8. It seems clear to me that the whole chapter is talking about characteristics of and promises for all genuine believers

In the beginning of the chapter there is a discussion about people who walk according to the flesh versus those who walk according to the spirit. Romans 8:1 teaches that all true believers in Jesus “walk according to the spirit, not according to the flesh.” Jesus said that those who are born of the flesh are flesh and those who are born of the Spirit are spirit. In other words, the fundamental nature of an unregenerate person is that of the flesh – they are fleshly, or “in the flesh.” Contrariwise, the fundamental nature of a regenerate person is that of the Spirit – they are spiritual, or “in the Spirit.” Of course, Christians can act fleshly, but to one degree or another they have to war against their own nature to act that way; they have to wrestle with the Spirit in them first. 

Romans 8:4 says that the law is fulfilled in us (regenerate believers) “who walk not after the flesh but after the spirit.” So Paul reasons that all believers “walk after the Spirit.” Again, it’s not saying that we are sinless, but rather that it is our nature to be spiritual. If you’re still skeptical I think verses 8 and 9 seal the deal: “So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God. But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ he is none of his.” So, if you are a regenerated believer in Jesus then you are never “in the flesh,” but are rather “in the Spirit” (at least as is defined by Paul here in Romans 8). 

Romans 8:14 continues by saying, “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.” Again, no Christian is flawless in following or submitting to the Holy Spirit, but the prevailing character of our life is that we do follow Him. If you examine your life and it doesn’t seem like there is any difference between the direction of your life and that of the world – if there is no higher level of concern for purity and doing the will of God – then you simply just may not have been regenerated by the Spirit of God. For the true Christian there is something deep down inside of us constantly crying out “Abba, Father!” When you sin as a Christian what is the deep cry of your heart? Is it not, “God please forgive me. God please help me. God have mercy upon me. God I wish this was not the case?” That is the Spirit of God in you, convicting you. 

These sons and daughters of God – those who are spiritual in nature & those who do know God as Father – those sons and daughters who often find themselves weak and disobedient, and perhaps even at times rebellious – what is their hope? What is their destiny? Verse 17 says, “And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together.” The necessary future for the sons of God is that they are heirs of God, and will be glorified together with Christ! This is the bunch of people who are being talked about in Romans 8. 

Now, trace with me who is being spoken of in this passage. Starting in verse 16, “The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God.” Who is the “we” in verse 16? – the children of God. 

Verse 17 – we are heirs of God, we suffer with him, and also we will be glorified together with Him. 

Verse 18 says, “For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” Who is the “us?” The same group in verses 16-17: regenerated believers. 

Verses 19-22 introduce a parenthetical, relevant side note about the natural creation: in the same way believers have hope of an ultimate glorification, so too nature itself is longing for the time when it will be completely released from the curse and set free from the effects of sin. But in verse 23 we are back to the main people under discussion. Notice who is being spoken of: “And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit (regenerated believers in Jesus), even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body. For we are saved (Christians) by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for? But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it. Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.” (Romans 8:23-27) 

A review so far from Romans 8:1 up to this point (verse 27) shows that there is one group under discussion: those who are “in Christ;” those who are “in the Spirit;” they are “led by the Spirit;” they are heirs of God; they will be glorified together with Christ; the Spirit intercedes for them according to the will of God; they are called “saints.” 

So it is very clear that all the way up until verse 28 we are specifically talking about Christians – saved people – not a special class among Christians who are particularly, uniquely godly. So then the recipients of the promise of 8:28 is to same group of people, unless we are to think for some reason Paul changed his mind at this point about who he was referring to? I think this can be shown to absolutely NOT be the case by continuing on after the phrase “to them that love God…” 

It says, “to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” So those who “love God” is also the same group as those who are “the called.” This then is connected with verses 29-30. Those who were foreknown, were predestined, were called, were justified and were glorified. This is all talking about various marvelous things that have happened to the same group of people – Christians – all Christians.   

Verse 31 then concludes “If God be for us, who can be against us?” Who is the “us?” It is the same group being talked about all along. This is where it really starts to make sense of it all in light of Romans 8:28. If God is for us Christians then certainly all things are going to work together for good for all Christians. 

Verse 32 – God spared not his own son but delivered him up for us all. Did God only give his Son for mature Christians or for all Christians? 

Verse 33 – Who shall lay anything to the charge of God’s elect? Who are the elect? Are the elect only mature Christians who are especially obedient to the Father? No. God’s elect are Christians: those whom He has chosen to save and ultimately conform to the image of his Son. 

Needless to say the rest of the chapter is pretty clear from here on out that the glorious, wonderful promises of God’s love and faithfulness apply to all who are in Christ. 

I would like to end though with some thoughts on why I think Paul did use the phrase, “to them that love God,” as opposed to just saying something like “Christians.” I think he described it like this because you cannot truly be a genuine Christian and not love God, at least in some ssense. Loving God and the brethren are some of the main assurances of Salvation that John spoke about in his epistles. The love of God has been shed abroad in our hearts (Romans 5). Deep down every Christian loves God. I believe my children truly do love me and they prove it most of the time in their life, but they are certainly weak and fail often. Put bluntly, if someone says they are a Christian but there’s no evidence in their life that they love God, but rather that they love the world and sin, then they cannot have assurance that they are Christian, and therefore not only does Romans 8:28 not apply to them, but none of any of the promises of this whole chapter apply to them either.

Romans 8:28 is glorious. It is even more glorious to realize that this promise is ours not ultimately on the basis of us earning it by being good kids, but on the basis of God’s goodness towards us in Christ – even as we struggle with indwelling sin, with this evil world, and with dark evil powers. We are sheep, God knows this. The Shepherd takes care of his sheep even when they don’t ask. If they were super awesome sheep then they wouldn’t need such a glorious Shepherd. God sent His Son to die for us while we were sinners. How much more now that we know God and love God can we be assured that His goodness and mercy will pursue after us all the days of our life? 

So the main point of this article if you have made it this far is this, don’t read Romans 8:28 and think to yourself, “I don’t live up to God’s standard of perfection, therefore some things in my life will not work for my good. The problems in my life are ultimately the creation of the choices of my own fallen nature.” Don’t say that and don’t think that. What kind of hope, joy and encouragement is that going to bring into you? Rather, read Romans 8:28 this way: “I do love God. Deep down it breaks my heart when I sin. I shouldn’t sin and God help me not to sin anymore. But thank you, God, that I didn’t earn your grace from the beginning based on me being good and by being perfect. You gave me this amazing grace because you Loved me and gave yourself for me. Thank you, God, that I can trust you that you love me more than I love me, and that you want my good more than I want my good. I can trust that you are in control of my life and all the circumstances of it, and that you will leave me and guide me in a perfect way.” All glory to God! 

Was Paul Crucified For You?

The Church in Corinth was split into factions or parties. A spirit emerged where they became more loyal to human leaders (Paul , Apollos, etc.) than to Jesus Christ himself. Might there possibly be in you a spirit of superiority over your particular spiritual leader (such as a Pastor) or your association to a particular church? A question that cuts right to the heart of too much admiration of men is this one – Was Paul crucified for you? When we return to who Jesus is and what he has done for us, it makes loyalty to men seem like an abomination. From beginning to end, the whole entire Faith, is all wrapped up in the person of Jesus! In addition to Paul’s question, here are 40 other questions we could ponder. Apply these questions to your spiritual leaders or to your particular church . . .

Dispensationalism: New Covenant Not For Christians  

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Leading dispensationalists teach that the New Covenant is an agreement established only between God and the nation of Israel (ethnic & political Israel) and that the New Covenant has not yet been actualized. For example: J. Dwight Pentecost writes, “…the new covenant of Jeremiah 31:31-34 must and can be fulfilled only by the nation of Israel and not by the Church…the covenant stands as yet unfulfilled and awaits a future, literal fulfillment. (emphasis mine)” This position advances that individual Christians (Jewish or Gentile believers in Christ) and the Church as a whole are not members of the New Covenant – does this seem like a problem to you? In this article I will provide quotes from leading dispensationalist scholars on this subject; I will remind everyone that the New Testament does in fact unquestionably teach that Christians are members of the New Covenant; and will conclude with a plea for Christian unity over these issues. 

John Walvoord (long time president of the Dallas Theological Seminary) wrote, “…the new covenant is with Israel and the fulfillment in the millennial kingdom after the second coming of Christ.”8 Charles Ryrie (editor of the Ryrie Study Bible) said, “The following provisions for Israel, the people of the new covenant, to be fulfilled in the millennium, the period of the new covenant…the covenant was made with the Jewish people. Its period of fulfillment is yet future beginning when the Deliverer shall come.” Notice Ryrie clearly says here that the “people of the new covenant” is Israel (meaning ethnically Jewish people) and that the “period of the new covenant” is yet future (the Millennial Reign of Christ). J.Dwight Pentecost is in agreement when he says, “…this covenant (the New Covenant) was made with Israel, the physical seed of Abraham according to the flesh, and with them alone.” 

So, their position is clear: The New Covenant is an agreement between God and the ethnic Jewish people alone, and it is yet a future agreement from now. The reason dispensationalists make these restrictions on the New Covenant is because the promise of the New Covenant from Jeremiah states that the recipients are “Israel” and “Judah.” “Behold, the days come, saith the LORD, that I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel, and with the house of Judah” (Jeremiah 31:31). You would think this would be an open-and-shut case, except for one major problem – – – The New Testament. For it is the N.T. that interprets and applies these verses from Jeremiah as having reference to and being fulfilled in the New Testament (or New Covenant) Christian Church. 

Jesus made reference to this New Covenant during the Last Supper: “And as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and blessed it, and brake it, and gave it to the disciples, and said, Take, eat; this is my body. And he took the cup, and gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, Drink ye all of it; for this is my blood of the new testament (new covenant), which is shed for many for the remission of sins. (Mat. 26:26-28) Covenants in Scripture are established and ratified with the shedding and sprinkling of blood. The Old Covenant that God made with Israel was established after the Exodus with the giving of the Law, which was also ratified with blood and the sprinkling of all the Tabernacle with the blood of appropriate sacrifices. When Jesus was celebrating the Passover with His disciples, these very events of the Exodus and the establishment of The Old Covenant is what was in process of being remembered (Passover). There, in that very moment, is when Jesus revealed that he was instituting the New Covenant. This New Covenant is not made official by the blood of animals, but with His own blood that he was about to give on the Cross. If the blood of Jesus has been shed and is applied, then the New Covenant is currently in force and has been since the first century. 

Additionally, when the apostle Paul gave instructions to the Corinthian Church about the Lord’s Supper, he repeated these instruction from the Lord, “After the same manner also he took the cup, when he had supped, saying, This cup is the new testament (or New Covenant) in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me.” This is important because now we are talking about a church made up of primarily gentile believers in a land outside of Israel. The point – The New Covenant was already well underway in the first century, and by Gentile and Jewish believers alike. 

The New Covenant prophesied by Jeremiah is also very clearly said to be in force by the writer of the book of Hebrews. “But ye are (not will be) come unto mount Sion, and unto the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to an innumerable company of angels, to the general assembly and church of the firstborn, which are written in heaven, and to God the Judge of all, and to the spirits of just men made perfect, and to Jesus the mediator of the new covenant, and to the blood of sprinkling, that speaketh better things than that of Abel.” (Hebrews 12:22-24) This passage contrasts the establishment of the Old Covenant with Israel at Sinai with the establishment of the New Covenant with the Church. Anyone with a basic familiarity with the book of Hebrews knows that the whole point is showing that the old covenant was passing away and that the new covenant had come. The old were the pictures, but now the person in the pictures had come, so we put away the pictures and embrace the Person. 

Hebrews 8, 9 & 10 make it abundantly clear that the New Covenant has indeed come, that it is already in force, and that this is the same faith of all of the other apostolic churches in the New Testament. In other words, the covenant is not only with ethnic Jews, but also with gentile believers in Messiah, starting in the first century. 

The only possible way you can attempt to get around these Scriptures is to somehow manufacture at least two different “new covenants,” which would be as difficult biblically as trying to successfully pull out a whole pack of chewed gum out of a girl’s long hair – the best course of action is just to cut it out!  

This distressing difficulty is felt by Renald Showers in his book “There Really is a Difference.” Dr. Showers is unsure about the relationship between the Church and the New Covenant. He ponders, “In spite of the Old Testaments’ silence concerning the relationship of the Church to the new covenant, the New Testament seems to indicate that the Church is related somehow to it.” “God had only promised one new covenant, it seems evident Jesus was referring to the new covenant.” “It seems obvious that Jesus was stating that the communion cup represents the New Covenant which God promised to Israel in the Old Testament. The very fact that the Church partakes of the communion cup which represents the New Covenant promised by God to Israel seems to indicate that the Church partakes of that New Covenant.” I can see Dr. Showers scratching his head saying, “The New Covenant is only with ethnic Jews, period. However, the New Testament clearly shows the New Covenant being established with the Church. Hmm… It seems like it, but it can’t be…” It seems like Dr. Showers is more committed to cleaving to the presuppositions of dispensationalism than letting the Bible plainly speak for itself. 

There should be absolutely no uncertainty about the relationship between the Church and the New Covenant. The irrefutable and obvious fact that the New Covenant is the agreement between God and the New Testament Church is as clear as the water that issues forth from the throne of God. The Foundation of the entire Christian Church is the “New Testament (Covenant)” Scriptures! Are the writings of the Gospel writers and the apostolic epistles only for Jewish people in the future? It sounds silly to even have to point this out. The apostle Paul said that he was “an able minister of the new testament (covenant); not of the letter, but of the spirit…” (2 Corinthians 3:6) Do gentile believers in Jesus have access to Paul? Does the Church have anything to do with the ministry of Paul? Was not Paul the apostle to the gentiles?! Are ethnic Jews included in the New Covenant? Yes, absolutely, but only those Jews who turn in repentance to God and faith in Jesus Christ. 

So let’s state it clearly – The New Covenant is the eternal agreement that God has made with His people who have faith in Jesus the Messiah. His blood was shed on Calvary for all (Jew and Gentile). When we receive Christ we are sprinkled by his blood and are made holy. We are set apart from the world and God becomes our God and we are His people. This is the New Covenant. It is universal for those in Christ and it is a present reality. 

So why do dispensationalists try to avoid this fact? The reason why is because they are committed to using the Old Testament as the ruler for interpreting the New, instead of using the New Testament as the guide for interpreting the Old. If Moses and the Apostles speak on a given topic, we should give preference to the Apostles. This is not to say that there are any contradictions between the two, but rather because the Apostles are looking at the thing with better glasses on. The Old Testament contained mysteries, which the Lord unlocked for His Apostles. One of those mysteries was the true identification of the People of God – that it was not only Jewish and locally Israelitish, but that it was also Gentile and Global, rather God’s People are a spiritual people in Messiah. There is only one True Israel. In the Old Testament it was mainly local and Jewish, but not completely, because we have included in the covenant people like Rahab and Ruth, etc. In the New Testament, Israel (The People of God, the people of the covenant) is comprised of Jewish and Gentile believers in Jesus, from all around the world. Did God fail in his promises to the Jewish people? Absolutely NOT! Rather, the olive tree was more glorious than they thought, and it included Gentiles as brothers with the wall of separation between us broken down. Hallelujah!    

Calm Down on the Dispensational Dogmatics 

As we conclude, I would like to state that the reason for writing this article is that there are some believers out there who are so strongly dispensational, that they wholesale separate (or even condemn) believers who do not wholeheartedly embrace their doctrine. The main argument is usually along the lines of, “If you are not dispensational then you don’t believe the Bible anymore…” Really? Come on? Dispensationalism teaches that the New Testament Church isn’t part of the New Testament! That is a pretty glaring problem. The Scofield Reference Bible is not inspired. The apostles did not include dispensationalist maps and timelines to their epistles. In simple language – Dispensationalism has problems, there are holes in the system, so it is not wise to be so dogmatic about it. And even if it was completely biblical, not holding to it still does not put someone outside the realms of Christian Orthodoxy. What is waaaay more clear from Scripture is that we should be humble theologians and love our brothers and sisters in Christ. Receive them as Christ received you. Our understanding of Israel and the Church, or the New Covenant and the Church are important – they do make a difference – but they are by no means tenets of orthodoxy. They should in no way separate brethren or churches. A funny thing happened to me – someone decided to separate with me because I questioned dispensationalism, but they didn’t even know what dispensationalism was. That should tell you something. 

I was saved into a strongly dispensational, premillennial church, was mentored closely by the most Jewish loving person I have ever met, and graduated from a Bible college very committed to this position. I love all of those godly people, but from the beginning I always hesitated to wholeheartedly embrace dispensationalism, because of deep personal Bible Study. I am in no way saying that dispensationalists are not intelligent or are not Bible scholars, but rather to say that you can be a committed Bible student and come to a different position, and also that it is possible to come to hold to a system of doctrine with more loyalty than to Scripture alone – especially when your friendships or career are on the line. There are plenty of other faithful pastors and bible scholars who disagree with Dispensational Premillennialism. It is absolutely not THE mark of true orthodoxy. So, don’t be the person who makes other Christians walk the plank because they don’t swear by dispensationalism. And lastly, rejoice in the fact that if you are in Christ you are indeed in the New Covenant and a recipient of every good thing that is in Him. 2 Corinthians 1:20 “For ALL the promises of God in him are yea, and in him Amen, unto the glory of God by us.”

Should Christians Ever Divide Over Doctrine? 

I have been challenged several times to answer the question, “Should Christians ever divide over doctrine?” So, here is a fuller response than ones I have offered previously. Some things I would like to cover in this article: 

  • What the question is Not.
  • Scriptures often cited to support in-house separation and how they are misunderstood & misapplied. 
  • What does Scripture require and emphasize in regards to our relationships with Christians with whom we disagree?
  • So should Christians ever divide over doctrine?
  • The U.S. Armed Forces

Summary 

This article became longer than I expected, so a summary at the outset may be helpful…

The question is not about whether Christians should separate from the world, from sin, from false brethren, or from brethren walking in unrepentant sin. The question is specifically whether we are ever required by Scripture to separate from faithful, born-again, Bible-believing, balanced Christians? Some say that there are Scriptures that require this, but from what I can tell, every Scripture that is used to support that view is requiring separation from unbelievers, sin, or truly unorthodox doctrine (teaching that would place someone outside the realm of the Christian Faith). The emphasis of Scripture in regards to responding to in-house disagreements with other believers is to passionately seek unity through understanding, patience and whatever kind of cooperation we are able to secure while still maintaining a pure conscience. Christians are not encouraged to separate from other genuine believers, but there are instances that it would seem permissible for the overall health and furtherance of the Gospel. If we decide that parting ways is the best for everyone and for the cause of Christ, then it should be done with a spirit of love, grace and unity. What is not encouraged – and is not pleasing to God – is erroneously labeling other faithful Christians as heretics, or having a hard-line, hyper-separatist, “my way or the highway” approach to Christian ministry in the church. 

The question is NOT…

  1. Whether Christians should be separate from the world. The Scriptures are abundantly clear that Christians are a people called out from the world by God to be a different, special, holy people unto Himself (1 Peter 1:16). God has brought us out of Egypt and now it is our duty to keep Egypt out of ourselves. We are not to be yoked together with unbelievers, because light cannot have union with darkness, and as the temple of God we should not be idolaters. Therefore we should come out from among the world and be separate (2 Corinthians 6). We shouldn’t be committing, condoning or excusing any of the sins explicitly listed in the New Testament. We should preach boldly against worldliness and back it up by keeping our lives free from it.  
  2. Neither is the question whether Christians should ever separate from others who merely profess Christ. It is clear that there are some who name the name of Christ, but who are not genuinely Chrisitans (Matthew 7:21-23), are actually following a different Jesus (2 Corinthians 11:4) and are embracing a different Gospel (Galatians 1): organizations such as the Jehovah’s Witnesses, Latter Day Saints (Mormons), 7th Day Adventism, or Roman Catholicism. They talk about the Bible and Jesus, but they have a different Jesus, a different spirit and a different Gospel. Anyone who wholeheartedly embraces the doctrine of those religions will perish. So as children of the grace of God we should not participate, fellowship and partner with false brethren or false “Christian” organizations in any way that would imply that we agree with their doctrine. Any doctrines which are explicitly stated in Scripture that would damn someone if they believe it must be rejected by believers (such as: denying the deity of Christ; or insisting that we must keep the Old Covenant laws for salvation), and we are to make a clear distinction between ourselves and those who hold to them. 
  3. Finally, neither is the question whether we should ever separate from other believers who confess sound theology. The Scriptures are clear that if a fellow brother in Christ begins to walk in open, unrepentant sin and therefore is heaping shame on the reputation of Christ – the church has an obligation to remove them from the fellowship. 1 Corinthians 5 makes it clear that a little leaven (sin) leavens the whole lump, and therefore we should remove that person from the fellowship. Accordingly, Jesus instituted the practice of church discipline (Matthew 18), which should be followed. If a brother hardens his heart in some way, and refuses to walk in humble unity and purity with the church, then the church has the unfortunate responsibility to excommunicate that person from the fellowship.  
  4. The question we are focused on answering in this article is – – – Does the Bible ever require genuinely born-again, faithful, humble, balanced evangelical Christians to separate from one another? This clarity has to be made, because it is often asserted against Christians who strive for unity that they don’t believe in separation at all. There are those who seek for an all-inclusive ecumenicism without regards to any doctrinal or lifestyle concern, but this isn’t representative of everyone seeking unity in the Church, and is certainly not the view of the present writer. We want to seek to draw the line where God draws the line – no further and no closer. Truth is absolutely essential, but so is love and unity. Holding both truth & love in tension is not easy, but I don’t think we have the heart and mind of God unless we hold both in equal tension. 

Scriptures often cited to support in-house separation & how they are misunderstood & misapplied. 

By “in-house” separation I mean separating from a genuinely born again, faithful, humble, balanced evangelical Christian (he or she is neither believing or practicing anything that would exclude them from the Christian Faith). 

 Romans 16:17-18, “Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offenses contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.”

These verses have been used to say that God requires us to separate from other Chrstians who hold to different doctrinal positions than our own. But is this what Paul has in mind here? Let’s take a closer look. 

Paul is instructing us to “avoid” (steer clear) anyone who “causes divisions” (διχοστασία – factitious, sedition, dissension) or “offenses” (σκάνδαλον – scandalous, enticement, snare, temptation to sin). The people Paul have in mind here are malicious and divisive – seditious, factitious, scandalous, enticers, etc. – not merely fellow-brethren who have differing doctrinal opinions on debatable, in-house subjects. The goal of these people is to stimulate disagreements that are intended to lead to discord. The word for “division” here is listed in Galatians 5 in the works of the flesh passage, and is translated as “seditions.” Someone committing sedition has a selfish plan to overthrow the authority of another. A fellow brother who simply has a different opinion and disagrees agreeably is not committing “sedition” or “causing division.” 

The other word, “offenses,” is clearly talking about someone who is trying to entice other Christians to sin. It is used in reference to the working of Satan as well as to “the doctrine of Balaam who taught Balak to cast a stumblingblock before the children of Israel (Revelation 2:14).” Balaam encouraged Balak to convince Israel to commit fornication – which was a very evil plan. So, yes if there are other “Christians” who are trying to entice your church members to sin, then they should be marked, rebuked and avoided. Paul did not have in view fellow, faithful Christians who had in-house, debatable doctrinal or lifestyle disagreements. He had in view people who are committed to the destruction of the health of the church: people who were trying to corrupt the church and trying to get the saints to sin and fall from grace.  

What does Paul mean when he says, “contrary to the doctrine which you have learned?” Does he mean, “Avoid anyone who teaches any doctrine on any point that is different from the whole doctrinal system that you hold to?” If Paul meant that, then we would be required to separate from every single Christian in the world – even from those who reared us up in the Faith! It would mean that any time we would disagree with our teachers, or former companions in the faith, we would be required to separate from them. For example: If someone was raised in a Bible-believing church that taught Postmillennialism, but through study came to the conclusion that it wasn’t the best interpretation of the Bible – is this passage requiring this newly formed Premillennialist to “avoid” his former brothers in Christ because the doctrine they hold to by default “causes division” and “offenses?” No. Not at all. Rather, “the doctrine which you have learned” refers, not to particular Christian denominational convictions, but rather to Pauline/Apostolic theology, New Testament theology, or simply the doctrine of the Gospel as a whole. In 1 Timothy 1:10-11, Paul catalogs a list of sins and ends the list by saying, “…and if there be any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine; according to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, which was committed to my trust.” Sound doctrine is any belief or practice that can live in harmony with the Gospel. If someone is a Bible-Believer (a born-again Christian), who confesses the same Gospel as Paul, and is striving to live according to the nature of it, then they have not veered from “the doctrine which they have learned” to which Paul is referring to – even if they confess and practice someone differently than other evangelical Christians. 

Another passage often cited to support separation from other faithful brothers in Christ is Titus 3:10-11, “A man that is an heretic (αἱρετικός – factitious, divisive, division-maker) after the first and second admonition reject; Knowing that he that is such is subverted, and sinneth, being condemned of himself.” 

Some Christians have a tendency to label any doctrine that is different than their own as heresy. For example: some would say that if another faithful brother or sister in Christ has a different understanding of end times particulars, then they are espousing heresy (which would also follow that they are a heretics) – even though they still confess the 2nd coming of Christ; another example would be that if someone has a different understanding about how certain details of salvation works, then they are also embracing heresy (which again would make them an heretic) – even though they believe in salvation by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone. Many other examples could be used, but the point is that some people categorize pretty much any opinion that differs from their own understanding of the Bible as heresy. But is this Biblical? 

As far as I can tell, the word for “heretic” used here in Titus doesn’t necessitate anything to do with doctrine at all. It rather speaks of someone with a negative, divisive spirit; whose manner and actions are designed to be factitious. For example: someone who sows seeds of gossip around the church then lies about it, or one who causes unrest in church decisions and tries to force their agenda on the church. Someone can be divisive or heretical and still hold to even their own denominational doctrinal standards. [For a fuller study on what the Bible has to say about “heresy,” take a look at this article: https://bro-lee.com/2022/11/22/heresy-hypocrisy-labeling-others-heretics/%5D 

You can have a difference of opinion without being divisive. For example: in the context of married life, there are lots of differences/preferences that surface continually (how to raise children, what to eat, where to go, how to spend money, etc.). A couple can either appropriately disagree agreeably, or be divisive in their interactions through pride or self assertion, demanding their own way, etc. It is possible to have perfect harmony, fellowship and unity within their disagreements, and it is also possible to have hatred, strife and division, even over everyday things. 

I think the way in which we commonly use the word heresy today adds somewhat to the confusion. The Oxford Dictionary entry for heresy is: a belief or opinion contrary to orthodox religious (especially Christian) doctrine. So the modern, English meaning has doctrine being emphasized. But again, even if we take the modern definition, heresy is still beliefs or opinions that are contrary to “orthodox” Christian doctrine. We have to then ask, what is Christian Orthodoxy? We should all be willing to readily admit that Christian Orthodoxy is not equal to our particular denominational opinions on every point. So what is it? How do we define it? I think the safest and wisest approach is to say that Christian Orthodoxy is the core beliefs that can and have been held by all born-again, Bible believing Christians (now and throughout the last 2,000 years of church history). If we accept this definition, then any doctrine that can be held by a Christian that is not in opposition to those core beliefs is not heresy, but rather simply in-house disagreements. It may not be the best teaching, leading to the highest form of Christian excellence, but it still is not heresy – not even by the modern usage of the term.

The fundamental problem with people who are too quick to drop the H-Bomb is that they have wrongly uprooted the boundaries of Christian Orthodoxy, carried the fences to their own denominational circle, dug new holes, and then erected the fences around themselves. Heresy in their minds now becomes anything that falls outside of the boundaries of their own isolated traditions, even if it still falls within the boundaries of Christianity at large. My challenge to people who think this way is to think carefully about what orthodoxy truly is and to make a definitive formulation of it, using strictly the guidelines of Scripture. If someone is dead set into thinking that their personal or denominational doctrinal statement is the definition of Christian Orthodoxy, and the 100% pure, perfect interpretation of Scripture, then I don’t know what to say other than they are the ones bordering on heresy, if not already there.      

The previous two passages are probably the most relevant Scriptures on the subject. Other passages on separation are clearly either talking about separating from the world, from sin or from doctrines which would exclude someone from being a Christian. Passages such as: 

2 Corinthians 6, the “come out from among them” passage. These instructions are clearly dealing with separation from unbelievers (2 Cor. 6:14). 

 1 Timothy 6:1-6 Paul tells Timothy “from such withdraw thyself,” but he is talking about withdrawing from people who consent not to doctrine which leads to godliness. Stay away from people saying that “gain is godliness.” Again this is a matter of sin, not differing doctrinal opinions. The same can be said for 2 Timothy 3:5.

2 Thessalonians 3:6 “Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.” Here we are told to not keep company with “believers” who are “walking disorderly,” which means “irresponsible, or lazy.” Again this is not a doctrinal issue, but a sin issue. Disorderly brethren are those who are in the church only to drain the money, resources, time and life out of the church and are therefore detrimental to its health and unity. When Paul says that they are not walking after the “traditions,” he is talking about the custom or practice of hard work (2 Thess. 3:8), which is obvious if you read the passage. What is not being referred to here – which I have heard people say before – is that the “traditions” refer to the “old paths” of one’s own denomination. Therefore, if anyone is beginning to adopt beliefs or practices (traditions) that differ from their particular denominational roots, then they are becoming “disorderly” and should be separated from. This is a very sad interpretation of the passage and couldn’t be farther from the truth. Not all traditions are bad, some are very good, but they become bad when they are elevated to the level of Scripture. When this happens, a Pharisaical, separatist, self-righteous spirit is fostered, which causes needless division in the Body of Christ.

Perhaps some other Scriptures could be listed, but they would still fit into the categories listed above. 

The emphasis of the New Testament in regards to disagreements among brethren is clearly a call for unity, not separation. 

Every healthy family has disagreements, but at the end of the day we “own” one another and are obligated to dwell in peace. A normal part of home life is learning how to understand each other’s differences and figuring out ways that we can work together as a family to serve one another and other people. Family members can certainly get out of hand to the point where they become abusive or dangerous and there of necessity needs to be a separation for the safety of the rest of the family, but this certainly is a rare occasion and should only be exercised when absolutely necessary. In order to take this step we really have to conclude that this person is by default dangerous. 

God’s Church is a family (1 Timothy 5:1-2) – a big, world-wide, very diverse, spiritual family. We are called God’s household: God is our Father; we are the bride of Christ, and he is also called our older brother. This makes every born-again Christian brothers and sisters in Christ. An argument could be made that this family is actually more significant than our own flesh and blood family in the grand scheme of things because it is the eternal family of God. 

Jesus made it clear that “he that is not with me is against me (Mat. 12:30),” and “he that is not against us is on our part (Mark 9:40).” From God’s perspective, every person is either one of his true, precious children, part of the family, valuable as one of his servants. Or, they do not belong to Him, are not a member in the family, are His enemy and the enemy of His people. We ought to view people in the same way God does. Christians that I disagree with (and that would be every one of them) are nevertheless my eternal family members, teammates and co-laborers, whether I like it or not. My success, and the success of the Gospel is dependent upon their success as well. If they fail, I fail as well. If we refuse to pass the ball to our teammates, or kick them while they are down, we are only shooting ourselves in the foot.  

Some Scripture…

1 Corinthians 1:10 Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.” God wants “no divisions” in his church and no “schisms” in the body (1 Cor. 12:25). Now of course, there is the unfortunate event that if a member of the body is walking in open, unrepentant sin that is clearly condemned in Scripture, or if damnable heresies are being espoused and not repented of, they should be disciplined and excommunicated (1 Cor. 5 – get rid of the leaven). Otherwise, God wants unity. We are admonished to learn how to work through disagreements with one another with Christian charity (1 Cor. 13) and be willing to minimize our preferences and opinions (whether doctrinal or practical) in our relationships with one another (1 Cor. chapters 8-10; Romans 14) so that others may be saved (1 Cor. 10:33; John 17). 

Ephesians 4:3-6 “Endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling; one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.” There is only one true Jesus and one true Gospel. Anyone who has come to God with repentance and faith in Christ has been washed in the same blood and born of the same Spirit. We have been born again by the same Word of God, have the same great commission, and are looking forward to the same Heaven. There are not different heavens for different kinds of Christians, or separate denominational wings in the heavenly mansion. Therefore, we ought to “endeavor” or “do everything in our power,” to maintain a spirit of unity among true believers. Can we have disagreements? Yes, in fact we should. We should debate one another and challenge one another to grow and strive for excellence. If it ever does come to a point where we part ways, it ought to be clear that we are confirming our love towards one another, receiving one another (Romans 14), and still striving to communicate and find possible ways that we can still relate to and colabor with each other. Is it ok to have different churches? Sure, so long as we still consider one another members of the one true Body of Christ and valuable, co-laborers in the Kingdom of God. 

John 17:20-23 “Neither pray I for these alone, but for them also which shall believe on me through their word; that they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us: that the world may believe that thou hast sent me. And the glory which thou gavest me I have given them; that they may be one, even as we are one: I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me.” This is not a prayer only to be achieved in heaven, but is meant to be fulfilled while the church is still on the earth. The prayer is that we “all may be one (or, unified).” We cannot get around the fact that God passionately desires for all Christians to be unified. Do you share this same passion with God? Part of the achievement of this unity is separation – yes – separation from sin and true heresy. But another part of seeing this prayer answered and unity accomplished is through grace, mercy, patience, and through…wait for it…yes I’ll say it…compromise. Yes – the most dreadful word of all to hyper-separatist brethren! But compromise is neither a good nor an evil thing in and of itself. By definition compromise means: an agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions. What makes it good or evil is what we compromise over. If we make agreements with the devil, with sin, with the flesh, or with damnable heresies, then yes compromise is a slippery slope to destruction, and will only fuel further division among true believers. However, if we hold to our preferences, opinions and traditions so strongly that we refuse to seek cooperation with other believers who don’t share those convictions; then wrongly label them as heretics, and only speak evil of them, we are causing needless divisions among the body of Christ. We then are working against the prayer of Jesus in John 17. We should be people of great personal conviction, but at the same time be people of great acceptance of others in the Faith. Every healthy family compromises continually with one another for peace, unity and the furtherance of the family’s mission. One evidence of being filled with the Spirit is that we “submit to one another in the fear of God (Ephesians 5).” Romans 14 tells us to “receive one another” to the glory of God!

We could list many, many more verses that support the emphasis of Christian unity in the Bible, but these should suffice for now. Our default posture in relating to Christians we disagree with should be understanding, peace, unity and practical collaboration with mutually pure consciences.   

So should Christians ever divide over doctrine? 

Again, assuming we mean genuinely born-again, faithful, humble, balanced, evangelical, Bible-believing Christians – As far as I can tell from the New Testament, there is nothing that mandates or requires separation from other Christians on the basis of differing doctrinal opinions – so long as those opinions still fall within the parameters of Biblical (Christian) Orthodoxy. All of the passages that require separation are either in the context of avoiding (1) “Christians” living in open, unrepentant sin, (2) professing “Christians” who are promoting doctrines that are antithetical to the Gospel, or (3) “Christians” who are not necessarily preaching false doctrine, but are continually being divisive and schismatic among the church (which would be sinful and would really put them back into (1) that I listed here). 

So, if separation is not mandated, is it ever permissible or allowable

One other passage that comes to mind would be Galatians 2:11-13, “But when Peter was come to Antioch, I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed. For before that certain came from James, he did eat with the Gentiles: but when they were come, he withdrew and separated himself, fearing them which were of the circumcision. And the other Jews dissembled likewise with him; insomuch that Barnabas also was carried away with their dissimulation.”

It could be said, “See, here is an instance where Paul was rebuking another brother by name (Peter) and distancing himself from him.” However, I think this passage actually serves to support the opposite position of calling for Christian unity, not separation. Peter was the one who was wrong in this encounter. What was he doing that was wrong? “He withdrew and separated himself” from other genuine believers, and he did so because he was afraid of what his circle of believers would think about him. So Paul did the right thing in rebuking him. Paul was passionate for the unification of Jew and Gentile in the church, and Peter was serving to undermine the Gospel’s purity and power by maintaining separation where it was unnecessary. Peter was at best supporting class-distinctions in the church, and at worst was lending support to the false gospel of the Judaizers. What happened in the end? The outcome isn’t told, but we have every reason to believe that Peter yielded to Paul’s admonition, based on how he surrendered to God in the story of Cornelius, as well as how Peter in his older age praised the unity of Jew & Gentile in his letters as well as categorizing Paul’s letters (which would presumably include Galatians) as Scripture. So this passage is not mandating separation from other Christians. If anything it serves to show that we should be striving to maintain the unity of the church, and also that there are times when it is appropriate for us to challenge one another over our stances. 

Another passage that comes to mind is the account of Paul and Barnabas parting ways for their second missionary journey (Acts 15:36-). They disagreed so strongly about whether to take Mark with them that they decided it would be best to part ways – Paul would take Silas, and Barnabas would take Mark. A few things to mention here: (1) This was not a doctrinal dispute, but rather a preference of how to operate the ministry, so it wouldn’t support the view of brothers in Christ dividing over doctrine. (2) This instance is neither put in a positive or negative light by Luke. He doesn’t state whether either of them were sinning in this disagreement, or who was right and who was wrong. The story is just stated as it happened. Therefore, this isn’t necessarily a good passage to point to as our example if we are going to use it to support separating from other believers. (3) However, I do think that it serves to show that there may be times when fellow believers will disagree about something so strongly, that the best course of action for the present moment would be to part ways and do ministry in a different context. It would be better for Paul & Barnabas to both be at peace and doing what they believed God wanted them to be doing, than to be arguing and not wholehearted in their missionary endeavor. That being said, a few cautions: (1) There is absolutely no indication that Paul or Barnabas thought the other was a “heretic” or being “displeasing” to God or “causing division,” etc. (2) They still considered themselves co-laborers in the Gospel. There is no indication that they eventually departed with hard feelings or being offended. If they would have by providence crossed paths at some town during their journeys, they would have embraced one another, identified with each other and perhaps even ministered in that same area with one another. We have no account of that happening, but the passage does say that they “were recommended by the grace of God,” suggesting their efforts were being blessed by the church. Also, everything else we have from the New Testament about Paul and Barnabas suggests that would have been the outcome. 

So, it seems from a passage like this that there may arise times when we are faced with situations as fellow believers where we feel so strongly about a particular issue that we decide to part ways, not because we are required to, or because we think that the other party is “unclean,” but rather because we think that there is perhaps a more perfect way, and we feel like we need to follow our convictions. Additionally, there may just be practical outcomes of our convictions that would make it difficult or impossible to operate a ministry with clarity alongside of others who have different convictions. That being said, if those decisions are made to part ways, it should be crystal clear to the parties involved, and to any other believers who observe it, that you are both confirming your love towards one another; that no one is being kicked out of the kingdom; and that people are not inappropriately being called heretics if they truly are not. 

The U.S. Armed Forces

A very helpful illustration to me for how division should or could work properly in the context of the Christian church is to observe the United States Armed Forces. The military is ultimately only one unit – one body – with one leader (the president). However, there are six distinct branches of service (the Army, Marines, Navy, Space, Air Force, and Coast Guard) and inside of each of those major branches there are all kinds of various divisions according to the many needs that exist in defending a nation. Why not just have one military, with one branch, one training, all doing the same thing? Because the divisions actually help facilitate more specialized training and strategic placement than if everything was all bunched in together. But even though each branch is different (even has a different ethos to them, oftentimes you can see a brotherly rivalry amongst them) they all serve under that one flag of the United States and under the commander in Chief. When it comes time to fight they all fight and live or die together. 

It doesn’t seem to me that uncooperative division from other faithful Christians is ever mandated or encouraged in Scripture. Instead I see the opposite: a plea for the unity of the Faithful, since we are in a war – the greatest war of all! There is only one Christian Nation, one Christian army, and we are all under the leadership of our One Commander-in-Chief, the Lord Jesus Christ. If another brother or denomination is teaching or doing something that you really just cannot get and you think it is detrimental to the progress of the Gospel – to his own master he standeth or falleth. That brother is under authority and God will deal with him. Our responsibility is to do our best to still work together with them to the best of our ability. Those other Christians that you disagree with – where do you see them on the battlefield? Do they have enemy uniforms on, or do they just have on a uniform from a different branch of the military? Deep down they hate the Devil and want to rescue others from his prison as well.